(Closed) So embarrassed

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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191 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That was an asshole move on her part…don’t let it get you down.  My mom always said, “never trust people at work with too much personal info” I guess this is why?  I’m sure your boss/friend didn’t mean anything by it, you may want to let her know that you’re really happy for her but that her comment hurt your feelings.  There is much more to you than simply “waiting” on a ring!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That’s kind of a dumb thing to say to someone!!

Post # 6
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481 posts
Helper bee

Ha ha ha ha. Next time tell her that you’d only be jealous if it were your SO she got engaged to. 

SOME PEOPLE! 

Post # 7
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2949 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Very tactless on her part. She should be the one embarassed, not you.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

@purpledaisies:  I wouldn’t say anything to your SO. Since you’re really ‘waiting’ on him, it’s just gonna make him feel guilty and pressured.

Especially if you mention how lovely the proposal was and how gorgeous her ring is- you don’t want to make him feel inadequate!

Post # 11
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Newbee

Ouch!  I’m sorry about that, it must have really stung. I’m sure they must not have realized how insensitive the comment was. Either that or she witch. 

your time will come. Hang in there 🙂

Post # 12
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55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Thats kinda rude! Just try to let it not get the best of you though. Im sure she didnt mean it how it came out.

Post # 13
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1328 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Ouch that’s rough.  I’m sure she meant it in a kidding way would feel terrible if she knew it hurt you, but it still sucks.  If it were me I wouldn’t bring it up to her or your SO, just be the bigger person and let it go (way easier said than done). 

If it does come up again then totally use that cute comeback that @makemake:  suggested. 

Post # 14
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2999 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

UGH!  I’m sorry this happened — how annoying, is it so hard to believe you could be genuinely happy for people??  But I agree,  I would keep your personal and private info out of the work place from now on!

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper

I think she just doesn’t know when to shut her trap.

I worried that a good friend of mine would feel lonely because of my engagement… it’s a natural worry if you know the person wants marriage him/her self. (And it doesn’t mean I didn’t know she’d be happy for me). But I never brought it up with her. Instead I made sure not to make a big deal out of my engagement around her.

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper

I don’t mean to be unkind and I agree that it wasn’t a nice thing for her to say but if someone said that to me I would be- hmmm am I putting out that desperate vibe? Am I talking non stop about an engagement? I would be thinking that I gave her cause to be concerned about how I would react.

Sometimes as humans we don’t even realise that we are doing it.

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