(Closed) So embarrassing! :(

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2999 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

oh my….this is so awkward! Fist of all I hate when people reply “it’s about time” or “finally!” when people get engaged. I think it is very rude.  I feel ya girl, this is a tough one but you handled it VERY WELL! Much better than I would have!

Post # 4
492 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Don’t be embarassed, people are silly and should never say FINALLY and all that crap!  your time will come 🙂

Post # 5
1979 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I would feel embarassed too! 🙁  Have you talked to your SO about this?  I wonder what he would say… I would completely break down!  This is the part where a bee will tell you that everyone moves at their own speed and you shouldn’t judge the success of your relationship based on other relationships.  It’s just a lot easier said than done when people talk about you being left on the shelf- that’s so mean!!  Waiting would be so much easier if there wasn’t so much judgment tethered to how long it takes for a couple to be engaged.  *Big Hug*

I hope that you get to have a REAL enagagement post on facebook soon!!

Post # 6
4921 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Aw boo. 🙁 

A few people made the “it’s about time” comment when I got engaged. So, so rude. 

I bet the people who posted those things are having a “foot in mouth” moment though. 

Post # 7
624 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Awww I’m so sorry, some people… But you know what? THEY should feel embarassed not you! This is their mistake not yours! And people should never say finally to someone when they get engaged, that is so rude to me! Nothing but happy congratulations should be said. Your time will come and then your friend bettrer be buying you balloons!! Hugs!

Post # 8
2037 posts
Buzzing bee

I would be embarrassed too.  I could see that happening to me, I’m the only person in my family who is not married/with kids…even my younger brother is engaged lol.  So, comments have already been made and I’m sure in the same situation (or when I do get engaged), they will all be saying the same thing.  I feel for you!!

Post # 9
2385 posts
Buzzing bee

Aww *hugs*

Post # 10
7437 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

I’m sorry! That really sucks. I’d definitely delete that post if you haven’t already…

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