Post # 1
I stayed home from work today because I was sick. I went to the doctor yesterday before work and toughed it out yesterday. But enough was enough and I stayed home today. Fiance said he was planning on getting drinks with coworkers after work and could I please come pick him up?
I was okay with that and asked when and if he’d want dinner. He said in an hour and yes please.
So I made a quick dinner and headed out the door. I text him when I get there and tell him I’m there. He’s like “Really?” And I say, “Yeah, you said an hour.” So he calls me and says “You need to come in and say hi to everyone, I’m coming out to get you.”
So he walks out to the car and tries to get me to come inside, knowing darn well I stayed home sick today. He gives up and says that he’s going to go in, close out his tab, and say his goodbyes. THIRTY minutes later, I text him again. He says “One min honey”. Fifteen minutes later he walks out to the car.
We drive home without a word and he goes straight to bed. He reeks of bar and alcohol and he just got in the bed with freshly laundered sheets.
And I am mad.
Just needed to vent.
Post # 3
I’m sorry 🙁 That is really frustrating!
Post # 4
Oooh bad move. I think he’s BFF with my Darling Husband…………….. Boys do stupid things.
I hope you feel better tomorrow though. Get a good night’s sleep.
Post # 5
I would be sooooooooooooo [email protected]$*()@ pissed!!!! How rude! You know he will be kissing ass in the AM though!
Post # 6
In the words of Stephanie “HOW RUDE!”
I would’ve been pissed. But I am not very good at the silent treatment so he would have heard about it ALL THE WAY HOME LOL
Post # 7
UHGGG so annoying! Boys can just be the worst sometimes!! I’ve had that happen before, usualy sleeping it off helps so you’re not as terribly mad in the morning.
Post # 8
I honestly would have left him after I gave him a one minute warning. My FH is a guy that needs actions to realize that he’s screwed up. Otherwise, he just doesn’t get it.
Post # 9
Seriously?!? I would be livid. You are SICK! He should have come home from work, made you soup, and tucked you into bed! He acted very selfishly and I hope you get a MAJOR apology in the morning!
Post # 10
He woke up at 3 am, so he woke me up. He then asked me if I was mad. (I was sleeping on the couch because in his drunken state, he managed to take up the entire bed.) I mumbled something to the effect of yes, I’m mad.
He immediately thought it was because he went out. He never goes out (I’m not 21 and he’s not single, so there’s no real point) and started saying how this was the first time he’s gone out in a long time.
I told him I was mad that I waited for an hour and that he got so wasted. With his coworkers! In My Humble Opinion, and I’m not 21 so I’ve never gone for drinks with coworkers, getting hammered with your coworkers (particularly ones that report to you) is a bad idea. But maybe I’m wrong.
But we both went to bed after that 3am exchange and all is fine this morning.
Thanks for the comments, bees, I really appreciate it.
Post # 11
Honey i’d be pissed, too. What he did was incredibly, obscenely inconsiderate.
Post # 13
i would be livid that he made you wait while you were sick, that’s so inconsiderate. he should have made sure you were feeling okay before going to the bar and then taken a cab home.
Post # 14
He didn’t really apologize. He thanked me for picking him up and said that he didn’t realize it had been that long and that next time he would take a cab if it was going to be such a big deal.
Fiance does NOT like humble pie.
Post # 15
Eeeeesh. my first question is why were u making dinner when u were sick? he shoulda brought dinner home for u!
Post # 16
First, he should have stayed home with you and cooked you dinner because you were sick! Second, if he didn’t come out immediately after the text, I would have texted him again, told him to take a cab, and went home. And probably would have locked him out of the bedroom. ha.