(Closed) So Frustrated. (wow this one is long, whoops!)

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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1058 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

YOu need a proposal, but make sure you are getting proposed to by the right guy! He is dragging his feet with something he knows is important to you and should be important to him. You shouldn’t force him, if he doesn’t make a move. Then, you do. It may be time to re-evaluate this relationship. You don’t seem to have the same values.

Post # 19
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3460 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I live with my bf but we very much keep separate finances. I’m not sure how you back out of that one now really though, but if you are going to do so, why wait until August? (Although, keep in mind, it sounds like if you split the bills, he won’t be able to save up for a ring.)

Where’d the extra tax return money go?

My bf says he wants to marry me if I ask him. Does yours? Is he unsure if he wants to get married? Or unsure if he wants to get married now?

Post # 21
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3460 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If after 3.5 years he was still unsure about marrying you specifically and unwilling to discuss it, I’d be very concerned. You can wait until August, but honestly, I don’t think that’s going to make much of a difference, I think he’ll still be in the same place then, if nothing else has changed.

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