(Closed) So, guess what happened less than 48 hours before my wedding…

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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717 posts
Busy bee

oh man that sucks!  It is pretty out there that he planned the whole ceremony without speaking wth you and your Fiance once, that would not  b ok even if you had asked him to officiate.  But to have to deliver that news less than 24 hours before the wedding, i’m sure that was so stressful for you.  hopefully he understands and will accept it and not be offended.

Post # 4
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6019 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@mimsmims7:  I can see how you would feel bad but that was a huuuuggeee assumption to make on his part. If he did in fact think he was doing the ceremony, the proper thing to do would have been to call you directly and make contact and say “so here is what I was thinking for the ceremony… when is rehersal? lets touch base and make sure we are on the same page” . At that point is when you could have said, wow thats so wonderful you though of us but we actually already have someone to do the ceremony. I cannot imagine how he went the entire engagement period without so much as asking you about your input for this ceremony he was planning.

Post # 6
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9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yikes… you know what they say about “assuming”.  How strange that he didn’t contact you to discuss the ceremony if he was spending all this time on it.  Looks like your wedding passed though, so what ended up happening?

Post # 7
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628 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@mimsmims7: Wow…I have to agree that he made a pretty big assumption and took some pretty big ‘control’ over a ceremony without any input at all. It kind of leaves me wondering if his story of preparing and spending money on a new suit is even true. I’m wondering what happened too? Was it terribly awkward? 

Post # 10
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628 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@mimsmims7:  Wow…yikes either way! I hope you’ll get a chance to talk with him on your own someday to make sure there are no hard feelings about the situation…rather an ’embarassing assumption’ on his part though…perhaps something that is best ‘swept under the carpet’…

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