- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
I was getting self-concious that I’ve been planning a wedding that is not what Fiance wants (not that he’s said anything, but I just get a little paranoid sometimes!). Now, we haven’t put down any money yet or signed contracts, but we have started planning vendor meetings, etc. I was just worried that he’d hate our wedding for some reason.
Anyway, I found this article and asked him to fill it out, 100% based on his own feelings, not what he thinks I want. I added some more questions, too – how many guests should we have? What is our lowest money spending priority? What is important in a photographer/DJ? I did the same.
We matched ALMOST 100%. We both want our wedding to be FUN!, not at all spiritual, relaxed, we want our family and friends to be there and be happy. We also both want good booze (we both ranked it number 2 after family and friends, ha!).
The biggest area we didn’t match was I put “how romantic it was” second to last, he put it first! Haha, neither of us are very romantic people, and when I think of romance I think of pink and fluff – NOT our style. I guess I’ll have to pop that up a notch! We did both rank “proper and tasteful” last, though…so that’ll be interesting!