(Closed) SO has been ‘sweeter’ in bed lately……..Care to overanalyze with me??

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
600 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

I noticed that my SO started being sweeter to me when he started thinking on his own that he wants to get married.  However it was also when we were starting LDR for a bit so it could’ve been that too.  It seems plausible to me that he’s made a decision and is coming close to it so he’s able to be more vulnerable and sweet to you.  It would be interesting to hear what Mr. Hedgie has to say……!

Post # 5
1025 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

He’s got baby fever?

Post # 7
3221 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I don’t want to get your hopes up, but Fiance did this right before he proposed. He was very passionate and sweet in bed. 

Post # 8
10361 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Maybe he is being more self aware about his actions and how they effect you. Or maybe he has been reading up on relationships and intimacy on the internet, and realizing that he should be more expressive. Either way, it’s a good thing!

Post # 9
2808 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I don’t know if I have tons of advice, but I wanted to let you know that your post title made me laugh:) We’ve never been super romantic in the sack (wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am is actually a little more how we like it hehehe), so I’d probably be more inclind to ask him what he did wrong ;D KIDDING!

Maybe he’s having romantical thoughts about your future together Laughing

Post # 11
2319 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Definitely reading up on some sex material and/or overhearing stuff at work. Wants to go with the flow that women like this lovey-dovey stuff and that he should focus on it more like he used to do when you guys were just starting out.

Post # 12
222 posts
Helper bee

Honestly I’d be thinking it’s engagement on the brain too, but truth is we [sadly] just don’t know. We’d drive ourselves mad if we thought every single out-of-the-ordinary thing meant engagement on the brain! I guess I’d say just enjoy it (like you plan to)! Pointing it out wouldn’t be the best plan, I know with my SO he’d only become self-conscious and stop doing it.

Post # 13
1025 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

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@Sasha2011: That was a guess of mine too. If my husband changed his behavior in bed, my first guess would be that he read an article on deadspin saying that men who make eye contact get action twice as much or something like that.

Post # 14
133 posts
Blushing bee

Wonderwoman…. I have followed you for quite some time.  You stopped posting for awhile and I wondered what happened to you.

I am now married after waiting and waiting and waiting.  We were just married two months ago.

My now husband was WAY sweeter in bed shortly before getting engaged.  I mean noticeably.  He just took more “care”….

I wish the best for you!  I hope it’s what you think it is, and I can honestly say it’s a pretty good sign because it happened for me too!

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