(Closed) SO hasn't come home.

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 77
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

prayers are with you! let us know what happens!

 

Post # 78
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Oh no!  I’d be worried sick.  I really hope he is alright but if it were my Darling Husband, I’d “kill” him myself once he got home!

Please keep us posted as you learn more!

Post # 79
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I did this to my mom once. My phone died while I was out, and I stayed at a friend’s. I thought nothing of it and figured I’d call when I woke up/at a decent hour. Well, when I got my phone charged around 9am, I had 16 voicemails from her and my dad and my dad was on his way to my college to see if I was okay! 

It was a definitely a lapse in judgement on my part, but I was okay. And I have never not called when getting home late or staying at a friend’s again.

And Fiance used to decide to sleep at his best friend’s house and his phone would die because he’d have no charger (back when we were long distance). Then, he wouldn’t call me in the morning because I sleep later than him. Meanwhile, I am awake and worried because he just randomly stopped texting when he fell asleep or his phone died!

I’m sure this was just a lapse in judgement on not telling you because his phone was dead or he didn’t want to wake you. But I would also call in “sick” because I would be so worried I be able to concentrate at work. Please update us and let us know what happened.

Post # 80
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

This EXACT thing happened with my SO. I was worried sick but sure enough, he called me from his friends phone around 6 am – phone had died & he had crashed on his buddy’s couch since the 45 minute commute home wasn’t appealing at 3 am. Caused a huge fight between us…but he definitely didn’t do anything stupid, other than have too much to drink. I hope it’s the same for you & you hear from him soon!

Post # 81
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Have you heard anything from him? Personally, I would be sending a note on Facebook to anyone who might have been with him who he is actually friends with (i.e. not his boss, no superiors). 

I hope he is okay. If he is, and he has just been a douchebag and not called you, then I’d be giving him a kick in the shins for pulling something like this!

 

 

Post # 82
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It’s way more likely that he got too drunk and passed out at someone’s house than that something happened to him. Try to be patient. And then rip him a new one when he gets home.

Post # 83
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I hope you hear from him soon! I hate that, and I’d be freaking out too. Keep us posted!

Post # 84
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Any news?

Post # 85
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

oh no! hope you hear from him soon.  keep us posted!

Post # 86
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I hope you hear from him soon. I know how hard it is not to worry.

 

Do you get personal leave time with your job? At my work, we get personal leave days and you just have to specify whether its for legal, medical, family, or whichever category – no note or anything.

Post # 87
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

im hoping  he’s home very soon.

Post # 88
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Hope to see a good update from you soon, OP.

Post # 89
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Worker bee

Oh I know how worried you must be!  SO did a similar thing to me earlier this year, he had gone out for a beer with his buddies and I woke up at 430 and he still was not home.  I went out looking for him and by the time I got home I was hysterical…and his car was in the driveway! Needless to say, I was furious, but I was also just relieved to see him alive and in one piece!  Men do stupid things sometimes, but I’m sure he is fine!  

What kind of work does he do that they have office parties on Monday nights?  I need to re-think my career, haha! 

Post # 90
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Hope you’re choking him out right now and that’s why we haven’t heard from you yet! Im sure he is fine but Im sending you a hug!

Post # 91
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Helper bee

Updates??

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