(Closed) SO hasn't come home.

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 123
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542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@ladyartichoke:  just to make you feel a bit better, my Boyfriend or Best Friend went out on Friday night with some friends from work and didn’t get in until 5am. The club closed at 3 and I didn’t hear from him from 11 until about 4:45am when he finally answered his phone i’d been calling nearly constantly since 4:30 when I woke up and realised he wasn’t home. I was absolutely livid when he used the whole ‘you were asleep, I didn’t want to call and wake you’-NOT good enough especially when I’d specifically asked him to keep me up to date with where he was going/when he was coming home. when he did finally get home the relief quickly passed and he found himself in the spare room. Boys can SUCK sometimes!! I’m glad everything worked out ok in the end 🙂

Post # 124
Member
9720 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Okay…I know everyone’s relationship is different…but you’re seriously okay with him just being like “oops, sorry”? How hard would it be to borrow a phone for 30 seconds and say you’re going to be out late. Or call a cab and go home, whatever. I mean really, passing out in front of a massage parlor in the red light district? How classy.

Post # 125
Member
699 posts
Busy bee

@ladyartichoke:  wow, glad it all worked out, i get that way sometimes lol. it’s hard to turn it off

Post # 126
Member
984 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Yikes. Quite a stunt to pull! I wouldn’t buy it. Even if he’s telling the truth he had no right to put you through that, especially on a week night. Inconsiderate, irresponsible, and worthy of the boot. A tiger never changes its stripes.

Post # 128
Member
11231 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m glad he got home safely. Why the hell didn’t the boss wake him up instead of just leaving him there?!!!

Post # 129
Member
951 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Glad he’s safe.

The one time I didn’t hear from my husband all night was back in January. His ship had pulled into San Diego and he went on a divisional trip to Disneyland with some of his shipmates. They had rented three vans and he was one of the drivers. Later that night, he texted me “Driving back, traffic sucks, phone at 1%”. Then I didn’t hear from him until the next day.

Turned out, the others wanted to go to a bar and he was voluntold that he was the designated driver. He wanted to just go back to base and take a nap, but people started pulling rank on him and telling him that it was his responsibility to take them where they wanted and needed to go. So he waited hours for them to get done drinking and then when he could finally round them all up, they headed back to base. Meanwhile, his phone was long dead as was pretty much everyone else’s since they were out so long. When he got back to base, he realized that because of the time difference (he was three hours behind) I was probably asleep and probably very angry (somehow he thought I’d be less angry the next day?), so he figured he’d just call when he got up. When he did, I had some harsh words for him.

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