- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2014
So, SO and I had talked about engagement, rings, marriage, kids a WHOLE lot in the past months. He’d just randomly bring up the guest list, talked about when we would want kids, wanted to know the style ring that I liked, etc. And 90% of the time he’s the one who has brought it up.
Although he wanted to know the style I liked, he doesn’t want me to go to the store with him to look or tell him any exact ring I want because he wants to do it himself to make it more special. The problem is that I have found my DREAM ring and I am 10000% head over heals in love with it. I tried it on, and have been looking at it daily online (bad idea, I know). I know lots of you will ask this, so I figure I will go ahead and say YES, THIS IS IN HIS PRICE RANGE 🙂
I told him that I stopped by the jewelry store just to browse and I found three that I really like, and they wrote down the skew numbers for me, which I gave to him. I told him that the round one was “one of the prettiest rings I have ever seen in my life” so I hope he gets the hint… but I’m not 100% sure he was paying attention to me.
Do you ladies have any ideas on how to tell him that THAT is the ring that I want, without actually telling him? 😛 Trust me, I want to just straight up tell him (I hate making people play the guessing game) but he doesn’t want me to. I need ways to leave hints everywhere pointing to that one ring!
P.S. I know lots of women on here are haters and will call me materialistic and tell me that I really don’t love him, I just want a ring… and I would like to say that is NOT the case. I love him with all of my heart, and there is no problem with wanting a specific gift. Even if he ended up not getting me this ring, I would still be 100% estatic, though having that ring would be super awesome. I am generally not materialistic (basically a grownup tomboy) and never thought I would ever be one of those women that “fall in love” with a certain ring/dress/man, but now that I have, its all I can think about (minus the dress :).