(Closed) So, how to bring it up?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1691 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Can you have a friend mention it? Say “just so you know, she has told me about this ring that she is in LOVE with”

 

For the record, if the ring is in the right price point, there is NOTHING wrong with wanting to have a ring that you will LOVE. Yes, you should be happy he wants to marry you, and yes you should just want to love this man and marry him.  On the flip side he should be happy you want to say yes ๐Ÿ˜‰ But in all seriousness, this IS something you will have on your hand forever (we all hope) and so you should have something that you love.

I find nothing wrong with that.  Now, if you hated it because it wasn’t big enough when you can’t afford something big, then I think you’d have some hate on here.

Post # 4
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1503 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I second what lia22 said.  Try to have a girlfriend bring it up to him.  Maybe have her say to him, “if you’d like a female’s input on ring shopping I’m here!  There is this one ring that she won’t shut up about btw…” or something to that effect.

Post # 5
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699 posts
Busy bee

@LeonardLady:  i don’t think your materialistic at all, a girls wants what a girl wants. I’d say the hint was pretty good, and having a friend bring it up would be perfect, just in case he’s dense, which, with my guy, would be lol.

Post # 6
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193 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

After months of shopping for a ring we could both like and within the price range, I stumbled on “The Ring” by accident. I just told my Fiance this is the ring I want and its the ring I got ๐Ÿ™‚

 

I am sorry, but I don’t understand the whole hinting have someone else tell him thing.  If theres a ring you really want and its within your price range, just tell him how you feel about the ring and how special you think it is. 

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