(Closed) So hurt

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4546 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m so sorry to hear about that! Did you ask him what happened? Maybe having a small ceremony with a backyard BBQ reception would be an option? More importantly than the details of the wedding, in my opinion, would be communicating openly about your finances and figuring out what the heck happened!

Post # 4
144 posts
Blushing bee

Wow I’m so sorry that happened to you. I agree with Treasure43. Communication is key and the fact that there was an error in that shows something may be wrong. There are other options for a reception, BBQ, everyone bring a meal…would your parents/family help pay?

Post # 5
395 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m really sorry about whats happening 🙁 Perhaps you could just go to city hall and get married outside with family watching you, or if you’re religious you could do it for free in a church! Those are the solutions if you just want to be married and dont care about having a large ceremony: me and Fiance are going this route :3

But yeah, men tend to be secretive about their wedding desires or just straight up dont care! it can be really frustrating when you think you’re on the same page but then they change everything

Post # 6
332 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

i’m sorry to hear that but what about a down scale wedding i know that sucks i hated the idea of it til i went to the church and seeing the look on my FI’s face and realizing that I would be married to him regardless of the place and the food made it okay.

we’re doing just a church wedding and cake punch reception it’s nice it’ll be our family and friends short sweet to the point and a lot of fun. only for about $2000 total including dress etc etc

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