(Closed) So hurt and tired of the “little” lies…Am I overreacting?

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 47
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

You know how there’s Chicken Soup for the Soul? Well porn works too…give him a break.

I kid….sort of. LOL 🙂

Post # 49
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@simpleandchic: Uh LOL at the women who think that EVERY guy watches porn. My fiance does NOT watch porn and in fact he is disgusted by it and it repulses him beyond belief. He feels ( as do i) that it’s degrading to women. So please don’t try and “generalize” who watches porn and who doesn’t.

 

 

Post # 51
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

@ChocolateApple: Also I have no problem with anyone who thinks their husband never looks at porn.

I just dont like people making people who do feel dirty or ashamed. 

I for one think nose picking is dirty and disgusting and I know my Darling Husband would never do such a disgraceful thing lol

Post # 53
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@simpleandchic: Well we have two differen’t view on porn and thats totally ok but I for one don’t just think my fiance doesn’t look at porn, I know he doesn’t. I don’t have a problem with other people or couples looking at porn at all but I do have an issue with women who think that all guys view porn because thats not true at all. As for the differen’t views on porn, we’ll just agree to disagree. 

Post # 54
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858 posts
Busy bee

2 things I feel need to be said

these women who say they know their guys dont look at it, how can you ever be 100% sure? you would have to spend every minute of everyday with them I had this convo with a friend who was the same way and come to find out her guy did every once and awhile he just never told her because she made him feel so bad that he couldnt be open about it

and second it does not degrade women, these women are paid to do these “movies” they arent forced to do them they choose to do so just as men and women choose to watch them. porn is only an issue if we make it one I dont like it myself but what other people choose to do is their own bussiness, I asked a guy friend about it one day and he said even if a guy doesnt look at porn he might think about hot chicks he has seen that day as his “tool” during masturbation I just dont get the big deal unless it is causing problems in your sexual relationship

Post # 55
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@miss sparkly cat: First- I don’t need to explain to a stranger how I know that my fiance does not look at porn. That to be honest is none of your business and you will just have to trust me on that and if you don’t then that’s fine as well. I unlike some people trust my fiance and don’t think that he is going “behind my back” and viewing porn. My fiance has no reason to lie to me and he knows that. I unlike your “Friend” don’t make my fiance feel bad about anything so again, don’t try and generalize the situation because not EVERYONE feels like their SO’s lie to them about porn viewing. I know and thats the end of it.

Second- We are not going to turn this into a debate about if or if not porn is degrading. I gave my opinion when I was explaining something to SOMEONE ELSE and thats it. So about the porn debate thing you are trying to start, don’t go there.

Post # 56
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I don’t think ALL men look at porn, but I do think most do, even many who claim not to.  And I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it most of the time, (obviously it can become an addiction, and obviously child porn and the like is wrong).  

My husband and I usually watch it together, if we watch it at all, but occasionally we watch it seperately.  There are videos out there that are more couple-friendly, if that’s your thing.  Sometiems my husband is in the mood or I’m not, so I tell him to “go take a shower” or “go watch a ‘movie'”.

Post # 57
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858 posts
Busy bee

@ChocolateApple: I was not talking to you if I was I would have replied to you. I was replying to some other posts I read and your attitude is uncalled for we were talking about it nicely (simpleandchic and I) and you started it so how about you give it a rest ok? have a nice dayLaughing

Post # 58
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I agree with Miss Apricot. Most do look at porn. And there is nothing wrong with that, in the same way that masturbation is normal and natural even when one is in a satisfying relationship.

ChocolateApple- “The lady doth protest too much, methinks.” 

That is all.

Post # 59
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109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@miss sparkly cat: Lol thats fine but I find that hard to believe since your post came right after mine which was about me talking about how I know my fiance doesn’t watch porn. It’s fine if you don’t want to admit that you were aiming that at me. No biggie. You have a nice day as well. :))

Post # 60
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109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@MrsOliveBird: Well your free to think whatever you’d like about my “protests” but I WILL state my opinions.

Post # 61
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Busy bee

@ChocolateApple: oh yes because my world must revolve around you nevermind the countless other posts in this theard that I was also reading after whatching the video I had just replied about

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