(Closed) So I am Not Invited?

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

WOW…bitch move!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

come with only my fiance’s name on it and only ONE response card for him on what meal he would like

intentional bitch move – i hope she realizes who wrong she was

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@eloping:  I agree. It’s to hard to believe this could have been a mistake. What did her mom say?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@armychica06:  Honestly, some people don’t know and don’t think anything of it. I have a SIL who did the same thing to her cousin (invited the cousin, but not the husband or their child) because she didn’t know she had to put all their names down. *hits head against wall*

It could have been intentional or it could have been a miscommunication of etiquette–but it’s kind of sorted out, so try to make the best of it or at the least try to kill her with kindness.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

She did that on purpose. Maybe it was a “mistake” but with the Future Sister-In-Law I have, I woulnd’t put it past anyone. Especially after you declined the 2 birthday parties, that probably pissed her off even more.LOL

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh yeah, this was done on purpose.  That’s incredibly rude. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Done on purpose but I can understand how she might think you don’t want a family relationship with them. It does sound like she has reason to think that, I mean most people go out of their way to include family and you dissed her child three times. You haven’t exactly endeared yourself to them. I wouldn’t be jumping up and down to invite you either. but that being said she probably does have to invite you but if it were me I would rather be wanted. She probably thinks you owe her an apology. I know some families don’t do the birthday parties but in my family it would really hurt feelings if we couldn’t be bothered to attend one of the parties. I think if you want a good relationship with Fiances family you should reach out. Just saying, try to pretend they made you feel they didn’t care about your child.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Done on purpose but I can understand how she might think you don’t want a family relationship with them. It does sound like she has reason to think that, I mean most people go out of their way to include family and you dissed her child three times. You haven’t exactly endeared yourself to them. I wouldn’t be jumping up and down to invite you either. but that being said she probably does have to invite you but if it were me I would rather be wanted. She probably thinks you owe her an apology. I know some families don’t do the birthday parties but in my family it would really hurt feelings if we couldn’t be bothered to attend one of the parties. I think if you want a good relationship with Fiances family you should reach out. Just saying, try to pretend they made you feel they didn’t care about your child.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

If your name was just missing from the envelope but you were on the invite and response card I’d think it was an oversight/laziness but you aren’t mentioned at all (is she not planning on feeding you?) so I’d be a bit upset too. Sorry 🙁

My parents once received an invite for mum’s BIL’s birthday party and when they got there (party was 2 hours away), Brother-In-Law asked where we were because apparently mum should have known that when the invite just had her & dad’s names on it, that also included her children Undecided

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