(Closed) So I decided to call off the wedding!!!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1667 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I know you probably feel awful at the moment, but go you for having the courage to get out of a relationship that you weren’t 110% happy in!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

You are so brave!!  I admire how honest you were with yourself, and the courage it took to end a situation in which you felt very committed. Best wishes to you as you start the next page in your life!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

If you feel this is what is best for you, go for it

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@futuremrsbolling472012: It sounds like you did the best thing for you. Now you have the chance to meet someone who is perfect for you!

Post # 7
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Helper bee

Aw, I’m sorry. It might be a bit tough, but just remember that you made the right decision for you, and that things are going to be fine! Now get out there and celebrate your single-ness! =]

Post # 9
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7387 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Congrats! I’m sure you will find what your looking for in the future. for now just keep doing what your doing.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Aw, sorry you had to end things, but so happy for you and proud of your strength to put your real needs over all of the excuses and any fear of what others might think! KUDOS to you and sending you positive energy and wishing you the best of luck as you embark on your new future!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

What a strong woman you are! Good for you for having enough self-awareness to know what is best for you and the strength to do something about it. Things can only go up from here 🙂

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2011

It takes a strong woman to step up and put herself first.  Embrace your new future and don’t look back.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Good for you.  I only wish I could have been as smart as you in the relationship I spent my entire 20s in.    We loved each other, but were not compatible.   He ended up leaving me 2 weeks after my 30th birthday with our 7 month old son.   It was horrid, but we both knew it was for the best.    2 1/2 years later and it was seriously the BEST thing that had ever happened to me.

I met my fiance almost a year ago and if I had known that things could be so much EASIER in a relationship, I would have done this years ago! 

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You are a strong woman, good for you for doing what is best for YOU. I wish there were more ladies like you out there that wouldn’t settle for anything less than what they deserve. KUDOS!!!

Post # 16
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Wannabee

it takes gutts to do what you did, congratulations this shows not only that you are a strong person but a smart one too, you saved yourself from years of headaches ! go now and enjoy your life as a single lady

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