(Closed) so i found out my estranged FMIL has been stalking me on weddingbee

posted 11 years ago in Family
Post # 17
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588 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010 - Philippe Park

Wow, sounds like your Future Mother-In-Law is a wee bit nuts, I see why she’s “estranged”. I’ve dated guys with crazy mothers so I can imagine what you’re going through, only a million times worse because you’re marrying him! Family or not, it’s best to cut people like that out of your life as much as possible. It seems like you guys have made the right decision by distancing yourself from her. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, she definitely needs to find something else to do with her time.

Post # 18
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1243 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Woah!

I just read your other thread legalbee and that is REALLY MESSED UP!  

I enjoy that her insistence of doing nothing wrong is undermined by the fact that she is posting on Weddingbee, using a pseudonym, and generally just being a bit creepy.

I echo northernazbride: how did she find out your user name?  

 

Post # 20
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2765 posts
Sugar bee

I don’t have much experience with FMIL’s, but I have a lot of experience dealing with internet stalkers.

I strongly recommend against posting about someone who is tracking you online!  It almost always increases the amount of stalking and tracking that they do… I’m not sure why, but stalkers tend to feed off of attention and energy.

The best way to have a stalker lose interest is to ignore them.  That said, it may be a different story with in-laws… it’s hard to say for sure.

GOOD LUCK!!

Post # 22
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Good to know, Mr. Bee. Well, anyone who reads this thread at least should help out and discourage interaction with the stalker. I find that if someone is unknowingly engaging a truly disruptive presence, a gentle PM does the trick.

Post # 23
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1243 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Good Luck, legalbee! 

 

Post # 24
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5822 posts
Bee Keeper

I have to point out that she actually made TWO psuedonyms, and she’s an idiot.  Really, we can’t tell that bridein2010 and bridein2011 are the same person?  Come on lady, quit your stalking and focus your energy on not creeping out your family!

Post # 25
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493 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I love how your FMI-Looney was all “FLABRIDE sounds controlling!”

And yet… she’s stalking you online in order to know what’s going on.

Pot. Kettle.

CUT THE UMBILLICAL CORD, Future Mother-In-Law. You’re clearly demonstrating how controlling and neurotic you are.

Post # 27
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4479 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Good luck!

Post # 28
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1637 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

wow freakin nuts! Your Future Mother-In-Law needs to get her OWN LIFE and stay the heck out of yours. What a crazy stalker (you hear me bridein2010 or bridein2011 or whatever you are now…YOU NEED YOUR OWN LIFE YOU CRAZY A$$ STALKER)

I hope you come back legalbee and she doesn’t find you so you can continue your wedding planning extravaganza! Maybe get a new email address, obviously a new username and don’t post your location so she can’t pick you out from the newbies posting in your area! Also lock your doors and look into a restraining order lol, she sounds like a nut job. Maybe if she respected her sons choice to grow and up get married you both wouldn’t be estranged from his parents! They should point the finger at themselves not you!

Post # 29
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8351 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Also, don’t put your name or day of your wedding. You could put the month and year because there are a lot of others’ with your same month and year. Just be careful not to reference specific things that are going on in your life, so she won’t find you.

Post # 30
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1637 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Noritake22-good idea on no specific dates, darn it I left that out! Laughing

 

Also @Legalbee enjoy your wine, I think I’ll have a glass right now too!

Post # 31
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1454 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

legalbee – I think our FMIL’s might be related! Mine is just as psycho (see most of my previous posts) and if she was more computer savvy she’d be on here I’m SURE. We need a support group for CFMIL’s (CRAZY FMIL’S!)

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