(Closed) so i found out my estranged FMIL has been stalking me on weddingbee

posted 11 years ago in Family
Post # 32
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27 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’m sorry, legalbee, but I’m just ROFL here.  I can’t believe she would do that!!  You would think an OLDER woman would have MORE OF A LIFE than to stalk her son’s wife-to-be on WB and pretend to post objective comments.

Your Future Mother-In-Law sounds really creepy and I love how she said that YOU were controlling.  I bet she doesn’t think she’s doing anything wrong/weird, though.  They never do.

I feel for you.  She scares the bejesus outta me. 

Also, does she really not care that she’s losing the love and respect of her son, if not you?

Post # 33
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2057 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

This thread along with the one containing your crazy a$$ Future Mother-In-Law have been so thoroughly enjoyable today. I am SSSOOOOO sorry – for the position you are in. I am SSSOOO happy that your Fiance does not display any of the same characteristics as his mother – thank the man above for that, lol  Good Luck and we will remain to have your back  Wink

Post # 34
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11324 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Yikes. I second other suggestions. Go away, make a new SN and don’t give any id’ing information that she could tell you from any other newbee. if there is anyone on WB you want to know you as legalbee then go ahead and pm them. So sorry she’s nutso 🙁 At least it sounds like your Fiance stands up for you!

Post # 35
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682 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

She sounds quite pathetic, I’m embarassed for her.  She needs a hobby.

Post # 36
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6571 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

oh wow. i have a fear of this. i didn’t answer a recent fsil question for fear of it being MY fsil signing onto weddingbee and trying to get me to respond, even though she has no idea i’m on here. i told my fi about it, and we both agreed i’m paranoid…. but this makes me feel better.

Post # 37
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461 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’m sorry.  I feel so bad for your fiance, and also yourself!  thankfully he is sticking up for you!  that’s really great!  I hope you guys can all settle this offline 🙂

But yeah…. she tried to insinuate that she was “older” and it was “age” but although I can see what her frustration is (letting go, and worrying and therefore micromanaging) and understand that all mothers want whats best for their kids… she’s definitely crossed some boundaries…  Hopefully she comes around…  Good luck!!!

Post # 38
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4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

Um, wow. This is just insane. I am so sorry!

Post # 39
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5822 posts
Bee Keeper

I love that your FI’s response was to tell you to down a glass of wine!

Post # 41
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655 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

OH.MY.GOD!!! Drink up girl! We got your back and can electronic kick her a$$ if need be! haha You’re lucky to have such a great Fiance who defends you no matter what… if he’s reading too– YOU’RE THE BOMB FI! haha

Post # 42
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1981 posts
Buzzing bee

That is my biggest fear… wow your FI’s momma is CRAAAAAZY. I mean… the guts it takes to do that… haha.

I’m curious as to how you found out it was her, but I’m sure you don’t wanna post that. And yeah, please do reincarnate yourself!!!! 🙂 we’d miss you!

Post # 43
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135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

She needs help or maybe a life… Enjoy your life with your Fiance and its nice to know he stands by you.

Post # 44
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3788 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Yikes!

How did you know that “bridein2011” was her, though?

Post # 46
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5495 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’d need more than just a glass of wine, Girly! Damn!

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