(Closed) so i found out my estranged FMIL has been stalking me on weddingbee

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 77
Member
2000 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Freaky!! I would NOT like it is my Future Mother-In-Law was stalking me! Sorry girl!!

Post # 78
Member
493 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

You know, Future Mother in Looney-Bin, if you’re reading this, I suggest you heed the words of a wise man named Ice Cube. He pleaded that one examine their situation before it becomes the detriment of their life, or in simpler terms he stated, “You better check yo’self before you wreck yo’self.” 

Your son loves her. She loves him. They are adults. Be happy your son has found love and happiness. They’re getting married whether you want them to or not. Nothing you have done and said so far has swayed your son. If anything, it’s pushed your child away. Someday, there might be grandchildren and if you keep this sh%t up, you won’t know those kids.

What the hell are you doing, woman? Do you want to die alone without your son or knowing your grandchildren?

So take a step back, look at the bigger picture, and stop being petty and ridiculous. Stop being controlling. Stop MEDDLING.

And check yo’self before you wreck yo’self.

Thank you. That was your old school rap ‘lecture’ of the day.

Post # 79
Member
3249 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

lmao @ ACS…ha ha hi-friggin-larious!!! HI-FIVES!!! WOOT!!!! LMMFAO!! I like you girl!!

Post # 80
Member
493 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

And I immediately had to find it on the ipod and listen to it!

Post # 81
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267 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I just can’t stop saying WOW! I just can’t believe this behavior out of a grown woman. It’s actually kinda funny how pathetic it is. You’ve come to a private forum with a username. She can’t use the excuse that you’re spreading slanderous stuff about her all over the internet when your not even using her real name or information. If you really wanted to you could put her name online and then see how she likes it. Give me a break. She is the one who has invaded your privacy by doing this. It’s one thing to do it & realize she’s reading stuff you’ve written. But it’s another thing to try and use it against you. That is not right.

I know I’m repeating myself here (I posted on your linked thread) but Seriously; now when your mad @ your Fiance and need to get it off your chest you can really mean it when you call him a Son of a B***ch! lol

I’m sorry; I’m cracking myself up with that one!

Post # 82
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595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I can’t believe that really happened!!! I am really starting to feel bad for the Future Mother-In-Law though. What she did was so so so very wrong but I think that everyone can stop picking her appart. She had no right doing what she did but we have no right dragging her out and stoning her via wedding bee!

It is really too bad that this has ruined the relationship between the Fiance, FDIL and Future Mother-In-Law. Hopefully you can all find a way to forgive eachother. In my opinion this thread should be closed I think the discussion has become more bullying than help to anyone.

 

Post # 83
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Legalbee-

I’m very sorry that you are having difficulties with your Future Mother-In-Law and do not wish that type of “drama” on even my worst of enemies. 

The type of behavior your Future Mother-In-Law is demonstrating is a childish lashout towards you in “taking” her son.  She needs to realize that both of you have the best interest at heart for your Fiance.  He is an adult and she needs to reliquish her control. 

You are doing your best in setting boundries and kudos to you in doing so.  If she wants to have any type of relationship with her son…..tell her to Let go, give up fighting, don’t expect or demand any apology and face facts your son is a grown man and making his own decisions!

GL with everything.  My hope for you is that she can act like an adult and support your relationship.  Family is the best thing for an impending marriage and it is difficult when your Father-In-Law aren’t in support.

Post # 85
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5822 posts
Bee Keeper

We’ll close this out for you.  Good luck!

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