(Closed) So I got my first RSVP of “no”

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Sorry you’re upset!! I expected some of my no’s to be no’s so they haven’t hurt, but I haven’t received any shocking ones yet – I’m sure I’d be upset if I thought it was someone who’d for sure come!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Awww sorry to hear that!   Just try to remember its very likely not about him not wanting to come, he probably really *can’t.*

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Awww 🙁 I was surprised by a few of our “no”s (I’d just assumed everyone who was in town would come! silly!), but I don’t think they hurt my feelings. (No-shows did!) I’m sure you’ll feel better by the time the wedding rolls around 🙂

Post # 6
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487 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I am HOPING to get a few no’s. We have limited numbers and the one’s we’re initially asking are the ones we HAVE to invite. I will be far more upset if my reserves can’t come.

Post # 7
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333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@AirForceFiance: Don’t worry it’s going to happen as much as it can suck.  I had 4 people who I had hoped would be there and who show up to EVERYTHING RSVP that they aren’t coming.  I was devastated but then realzied “eh I have a ton of other people coming”

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’ve been kind of let down by our ‘no’s too, mostly because it seems like all of them are from my family and very few are from FI’s. Try not to let it bother you; the day is going to be wonderful with everyone who is able to come.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I had a few people I was hoping could make it, but had a few no’s. Fiance is more upset about his no’s since there were a few who told him months ago they would be there and now they can’t….like his brother. In the end you will have a wonderful day and that is all that matters. 🙂

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