(Closed) So I helped find my friend her wedding dress :(

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

*Hugs* Your special time will come. Sorry you feel low. It does take strength to do what you did and support your friend – I remember it well. x

Post # 4
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Newbee

This feeling is so familiar to me right now. It’s so hard, and the last thing I want to do is convey these feelings to my Boyfriend or Best Friend because I don’t want him to feel like I’m not happy with him. It’s not that we’re unhappy, we’re just SO happy that we’re ready to take that step. I wish you so much luck for your hopes of September! <3

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

awww nothing is wrong with you…. I know exactly how you feel but it’s really nice that you are supportive to your friends. when your special time comes they would support you as you have them…  

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Your really brave, but your doing it for your friends – just keep thinking that one day, they will be helping YOU try on YOUR wedding dress. I would use this as a talking point for your partner.. don’t go into detail, but bringing up that your friends should at least give him a nudge about talking about weddings etc..

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

It definitely is hard, and I know exactly how you feel!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

i definitely know how you feel. i just dealt with that myself. i was a bridesmaid in a friend’s wedding earlier this month and i helped her find her dress [on the first day of shopping!], tried on bridesmaids dresses with her, helped with last minute projects the day before the wedding, helped her get ready the day of but i didn’t get that wistful, wish it was my turn until we were on the way to the church for pictures. thank goodness for dark sunglasses, you know?

i was genuinely happy for her but sometimes it just hits me weird. but you know, i know my time will come so i try not to dwell on the gut punches. glad you overcame yours!

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