Post # 1
I introduced a guy friend of mine to a girl friend from the gym. She and I aren’t super close, but close enough that we talk about stuff going on.
I flat out asked her before I introduced her to guy if she was single and she said yes. I introduce them, they go on a couple dates and then guy texts me that he suspects she’s seeing someone. In the meantime she recruited him to get a membership at our gym so that she gets a $50 referral bonus. She then stopped talking to him.
I check out her profile on facebook and while it’s not official, there are lovey dovey posts from this OLD MAN from the gym (he’s old enough to be her dad)!
I have no problem if girl wants to date OLD MAN. What does bother me is that: she said she was single, even though she was probably seeing OLD MAN already. She took advantage of my friend for a measily $50 (although he could have said no to signing up). I look like a tool because I vouched on her behalf to guy and it turns out she a manipulating witch! grrrr….I hate this feeling.
Post # 3
@Nicoso: Don’t beat yourself up over it. Sorry to hear that happen though. This is probably why I would never play “cupid”. Is the guy totally upset with you?
Post # 4
Oh wow….definitely apologise to the guy…its not your fault, you didn’t know she was going to be a user 🙁
Post # 5
It’s not your fault! Tell the guy exactly what you just posted and get rid of her as a friend! Sounds too fishy to me!
Post # 6
I apologized already. He said he holds nothing against me and appreciates the effort but that doesn’t take away the “complete tool” feelings I have right now. I just feel terrible.
@Kenic315 and Steampunk Angel:
She’s already been cut. It’s funny because she’s completely ostracized at the gym and I could never figure out why. I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and be nice. Guess I learned the hard way. She just lost the one “girlfriend” she had. Guess when you’re an attention starved maneater there’s not much hope for you.
Post # 7
Mean! I’d be so embarrassed, though it’s not your fault.