(Closed) So… I pretty much figured out how bf is going to propose…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1765 posts
Buzzing bee


I’m sure that even if most likely know you will be very happy anyway!! Best Wishes!

Post # 4
935 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

How EXCITING! Keep you chin up. You have something to look forward to. I don’t think you will need to “act surprised”, from what I’ve heard from other Bee’s, a whole other set of emotions take over once you see your guy on his knees with a ring in hand….

I would just try not to hyperventilate on any hot-air balloon rides from now until you’re engaged 😉 It may be hard not to get your hopes up.


Post # 6
1892 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Aww your surprised isn’t ruined! Honestly, your still going to be surprised. I mean you may know how he is going to propose, but your not going to know HOW he is going to….what he’s going to say or do during the actual proposal and asking you to marry him.

I knew FH was going to propose on our vacation together at these botanical gardens he instisted on going to. What I didn’t know is that he had a sterling silver photo album made for me with my proposed engraved on the cover and filled with pictures of us. I was also so overcome with emotion that I still cried like a baby even tho I knew it was coming. No matter what you wont be acting that day!


Post # 8
1892 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@europomme: Glad I could help. Enjoy every moment of it, it happens so fast!

Post # 9
236 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yeah, I wouldn’t say anything to him about it. 

Regardless if your a horrible actor or not, you WILL be surprised and I bet you will cry too. Especially when you are up so high in the air.

That is a very romantic proposal.

Congrats and I can’t wait to hear the actual story of your proposal.

Post # 11
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Honestly, I think if you asked most bees, we knew the proposal was coming. From my experience, and friends, we all knew it was coming, and that’s to be expected, because if you’re planning on getting married usually you’ve talked about it for some time, and you know the person really well. That being said. I think you should try and enjoy the trip he has planned, don’t say anything. When the moment comes you will be so happy and excited, and suprised in how he does and says it, it totally overrides knowing how he planned it.   Be excited! Have fun!!!

Post # 12
1184 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@europomme: I knew the proposal was coming and I thought I knew how he was doing it, but he ended up TOTALLY surprising me, doing it earlier that I expected and differently and way better than I thought it would be. (He kind of figured I knew when it was coming, so he rearranged to do it earlier.) So maybe you’re wrong? And honestly, even if you’re right, you won’t have to act, you’ll be so overcome and excited no matter what. I literally thought my heart was going to beat right out of my chest. Have fun!

Post # 13
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@europomme: I don’t think your surprise is ruined. I knew EXACTLY when my now Fiance was going to propose. He was taking me out to dinner Friday after work. I went home first to change and my lovable man had left the ring box on the corner of the bed (he’d taken the ring out and put it in his pocket).

The proposal was still wonderful though. He asked me after if I knew, and I had to tell him (I couldn’t lie). He seemed sad, but said he’s glad I told the truth becuase he would have seen he left the box out when he went into the bedroom.

The moment is still very special eventhough I knew it was coming that night.

Post # 14
42 posts

Its all about the anticipation…

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