(Closed) So I replaced a bridesmaid today.

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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890 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Holy hell!!  I am sorry you had to go through that 🙁  At least you can move on now.  I was in a freindship like this with 2 people my Fi also did not them when he first met them and refused me to see them but it only took a few weeks after that to realize fi was right because they used me for over 6 years!  I guess your eyes open in way when someone really specail to you says something.  I really think she is one selfish person!  hopefully this is the last you hear from her!

 

**HUGGS 😀

Post # 4
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6746 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

It’s really sad that you ended a friendship with someone who you knew since the first grade over a couple rough months during your wedding planning.  I’m sorry it happened this way and I’m sorry that she was jealous and stealing your ideas.  They do say, however, that imitation is the best form of flattery.  Hope everything goes smoothly from hereon out.  *hug*

Post # 6
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1115 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@futuremrsk18:  It is my understanding that this wasn’t an isolated few months in an otherwise blissful friendship.  It seems to me like all the drama surrounding the wedding planning was the straw that broke the camel’s back, no?  It sounds like this was a long time coming. 

@HeatherMM:  Oof, that sounds rough.  I am sorry this happened and that you lost a friend.  But it sounds like you knew she hasn’t been much of a friend for awhile, and I think you will be happier without someone like her in your life in the long run.  She sounds mean-spirited.  Still, losing a longtime friend is hard.  Sending you hugs!  (Just accidentally typed “jugs” instead of hugs and it made me giggle.  Cool)  Hope the rest of your planning goes smoothly!

Post # 7
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156 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ahhh! I completly understand! I lost a long time friend while wedding planning because of jealousy issues! It sucks, and it hurts. But your better off without all the drama. I can’t believe she expected you to drop your whole life to give her a refrence!

Post # 10
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6746 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

@HeatherMM:  wow, that’s really odd that she got so competitive with you.  i’m pretty sure it was happening all along and you either brushed it off or ignored it because it didn’t all add up the way it did this time.  i didn’t mean to say though that you ended it, i just meant that it was really sad that the both of you ended such a long-time friendship. but, it happens, and sometimes it has to.  she was clearly toxic and that’s not a good friend.  sorry 🙁

Post # 12
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6746 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

@HeatherMM:  That happens.  Sorry the toxic friendship lasted so long, but now that it’s gone you can finally move on and plan your wedding without any drama (hopefully!)

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