(Closed) So I walked, I guess …

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Best of luck finding true love and happiness!

Do not contact him; it will only make moving on with your life that much harder.

Get lots of sleep and if you can afford it treat yourself to a facial or massage.

Post # 4
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57 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Sending you love and strenght, take care of yourself. 

Post # 5
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839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Sorry that you’re going through such a tough time. I hope things work out for you – whether you end up back together or not, hopefully you end up happy.

 

Post # 7
Hostess
2999 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I wish you all the best, stay strong!

Post # 8
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9649 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MariaW:  Oh, hon, I know you’re sad.  The longer you can go with no contact the easier moving on with your life will be.  I wish you all the best!

One more thing:  Keep reminding yourself you deserve better than someone who would let things get to the point you had to go to these lengths.  You know in your heart it shouldn’t be like this.  A man who loves you doesn’t behave the way this man has.

Post # 10
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5886 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

It’s hard, but it’s the right thing to do. Give yourself goals for not contacting him (even responding to his email or phone calls)–take it one day at a time, but give yourself little presents like Ice Cream after 1 week no contact, New Shoes after 1 month, etc.

Good Luch and it will get easier!

Post # 11
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Newbee

((Hugs)) I know that must have been a very hard thing to do, but I admire your courage to make such a difficult decision and I truly believe that no matter what happens everything will work itself out for the best.

 

Post # 12
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1314 posts
Bumble bee

You will be sad. Very sad at times and this is normal. It sucks but what sucks more is being with someone that isn’t 110% about the relationship. That is more painful!

Good luck and you will be just fine I swear!

Post # 13
Member
1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Sorry to hear that your relationship has ended. Good for you for making the decision that you feel is best for you.

Post # 16
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290 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It will be hard at times, but do what you can to stay busy. I’m sure there are things that you want to try, see, do. Now is the time to really just focus on you and your (individual) happiness. Definitely don’t rush into anything new – none of that rebound b.s. Just you… 

What’s meant to be, will be.  And you will be happy.  🙂

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