(Closed) So.. I’m upset… about how he might propose..

posted 10 years ago in Waiting
Post # 32
1525 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@bearlove:  Oh. My. God. I’m SO GLAD that my Fiance never heard of someone doing this. 

Post # 33
592 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I can sympathise, I hate being the centre of attention. I agree with PPs though, he’s messing with you.

Post # 34
25 posts
  • Wedding: November 2013

@MapleMoose:  Good point! Sounds very possible with the smile and all.


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@RedRoses2013:  I know how you feel about wanting a private proposal. I am virtually embarassed by eveything in public, so my SO knows private is a must. I want to be able to enjoy myself and like you said not have an anxiety attack. I also just want it be me and him just because. I picture it as very intimate and comfortable and somewhere that I won’t care when I start to cry. We both have small circles so this suits us well. I really hope he respects your wishes! Good luck!

Post # 35
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Be “sick” and stay home.

Post # 36
1020 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m agreeing with other ladies. I doubt that he’d propose in that public of a setting, knowing how shy you are and that it would freak you out. 

Apparently guys get really silly in the time before they propose. I think he’s trying to throw you off. Try not to worry and just enjoy the game. The more you think about it, the more you’ll be upset and the game won’t be fun. 

Good luck and keep us posted!

Post # 37
615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I’m totally with you on the No public/jumbotron proposals, and for a moment like that, I’m sure he knows you well and would not do it then.  He probably was just teasing you!  🙂

Post # 38
3631 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

This makes me laugh a little. I told DH that if he decided to propose on a jumbo tron I would say no and slap him. Not because I didn’t want to marry him, but because I didn’t want 20,000 strangers to be watching! I hope it turns out okay. 

Post # 39
6580 posts
Bee Keeper

I think he is totally messing with you to throw you off. Stop worrying and enjoy the engagement!

Post # 40
2128 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

idk I kinda feel the same way and am a private person. DH proposed outside in some public gardens. I was so shocked by the proposal that I didn’t even notice the nearly 30 random people that gathered around us to clap and cheer us on. I just didn’t pay attention and it didn’t bother me because I was caught up in the moment. Maybe it will be the same for you?

Post # 43
464 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@RedRoses2013:  Yay! That sounds wonderful! Congratulations!

Post # 44
1020 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

That’s fantastic! I’m so happy for you! Thanks for the update too!

Post # 45
656 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@RedRoses2013:  Woo congratulations!! So glad it was just the way you wanted 🙂 happy planning!

Post # 46
1741 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010


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