- 9 years ago
we’re not technically engaged, but we’ll probably have a ring in a couple months, depending on his current job situation (im completely debt-free, and he’s very close- we want to pay cash) We already have plans and the month picked to be wed, are about to start renovating a house his family inherited (can I mention how excited I am to start a marriage without a mortgage/lease?), but we’re not technically engaged. This is annoying. It’s no one’s fault. we’ve made the commitment and we’re very excited. we just want to wait to tell everyone about our plans until there’s a ring on my finger. anyone else in the gray area?