Post # 1

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Busy bee
tonight i had a miscarrage. this is so unbelievably hard to process. i didnt know i was even pregnant again. before anyone asks about it when i had DS they had to remove my right philliopian tube and because of this i only ovulate ever other month so i only get a period every other month.
i feel so incredibly sad. DS will be 1 on the 7th and since having him cut my chances of having another it kind of seems like a slap in the face. I told SO and he is nothing but supportive but i just dont know what to do at this point. i feel broken inside… kinda like some took a meat tenderizer to my heart
im sorry to be a downer i dont have anyone to talk to and could realy use some support right now
Post # 3

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Bumble bee
Hugs. You poor thing. How far along were you? Can’t imagine how you’re feeling…
Post # 4

Bee
6468 posts
Bee Keeper
- Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia
I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how you must be feeling right now.
Post # 5

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7774 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
I’m so, so sorry for your loss.
Post # 6

Member
987 posts
Busy bee
Hugs!!! I’m so sorry for your loss. I, too, had a miscarriage last August and know first hand what a terrible thing it is to have to go through. Know that you are not alone, lean on your DH and us bees to help you through this. It’s very hard to imagine at first, but I promise that although you’ll never forget, it will get better!
Post # 7

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2575 posts
Sugar bee
Sending love thoughts to you. I am so, so sorry. Hugs.
Post # 8

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1854 posts
Buzzing bee
(((hugs))) I am so sorry for your loss.
Post # 9

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9478 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
I’m so sorry for your loss. (hugs)
Post # 10

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1457 posts
Bumble bee
Hugs to you. I am so sorry and can’t even imagine what you are going through. Hang in there!
Post # 11

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653 posts
Busy bee
Hugs. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Post # 12

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7691 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
I’m so sorry 🙁 My friend recently had a MC and I saw firsthand how hard it is on her. Sending hugs to you!
Post # 13

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Buzzing bee
Oh no… I am very sorry to hear that. My mum went through that. (I was super young at that time) but she still sometimes talks about it and I can tell that it is a VERY difficult experience. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Post # 14

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410 posts
Helper bee
I’m so sorry. :/ I’m sending thoughts & prayers your way.
Post # 15

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389 posts
Helper bee
I’m so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I know how hard it is. This probably isn’t any consolation, but I had an ectopic pregnancy and lost a tube with my first (and only) pregnancy, so at least you had one baby before losing the tube. Also, if they didn’t take out the ovary, removing a tube shouldn’t affect your ovulation. I’ve been told it is still possible to ovulate from that ovary and become pregnant.
Post # 16

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Buzzing bee
so sorry to hear about your loss. hugs.