- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2016
this past weekend, my Fiance and I had a blow up of an arguement. We rarely fight or yell. But boy did we make up for it this weekend. I am 45 and never been married. He is 54 and I will be his 4th wife. Neither of us have children. We are getting married in Oct 15th. I have begun plans and put down deposits. So the initial start of the arguement starts with me asking him if he would rather us have gotten married sooner at like a Justice of the Peace because of religious convictions (we are both Baptists and living together) So at the end of this 2 day drama we have decided to go to JOP in a month. But I am still going to proceed with a reception on our original date that we were going to be married.
1: I am VERY family oriented. i live in Washington but family is in Tennessee. so no family will be at my wedding and i want some kind of celebration with them. 2: I have already done the basic work/reservations/deposit for the Oct 15th date.
3: I want a celebration of our wedding with family and friends.
So is a delayed reception at the venue with probably my dad’s minister having us stand together, blessing our marriage and having prayer, is this weird? I do not mind compromising by getting married now but I still want some kind of celebration with my family. I am never going to have children. so i dont think it is too much to want a wedding. My fiancee is okay with having a reception in october as long as we go ahead and get married in the next month