(Closed) So, I've been invited to a hen party…

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
178 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Just stay within your limits! I’m the same way. Love shoes, don’t actually want to walk in them. And I cannot go over two drinks, or it is not pretty.  Honestly, I don’t think you have anything to worry about. I don’t think anyone will comment if you aren’t wearing six inch heels. And saying no to another round is a lot more respectful than drinking yourself under the table trying to keep up.

Post # 3
3636 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Like kapalua67:  has said – stay within your normal limits. Plan to have one drink every hour with water in between. So long as you are eating/have had a meal before going, this should not get you drunk, just loose. 

Take this as an opportunity to meet more of your FI’s family and in a “let your hair down” setting. Hen parties sometimes have games, perhaps you can only call each other by specific, silly names “boobalisious” for example. Just go with the flow.

Remember that you will be attending this wedding in the future, which means that at the wedding you’ll have all of these new people you know! Then you can laugh about the antics of the hen’s party together whilst at the wedding.

At these kinds of things you only get out what you put in, so start telling yourself that you want to go and be willing to throw yourself into whatever activities are going on. It will only be fun if you want it to be, so don’t go thinking “I don’t want to be here” – because then it will suck.

Have fun! 🙂

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