(Closed) So mad and upset

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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180 posts
Blushing bee

I’m really sorry this is happening 🙁 I know how that feels because my first engagement was just like that, and it was really really hard. We ended up not getting married, and now I’m engaged again to a far better man. This time he is chomping at the bit to get married, and it makes things a lot easier for me. Of course I’m not suggesting you should break off your engagement, but I do think you guys really, really need to talk about this. If he really loves you, he’ll try to understand how you feel and reach some sort of compromise.

In any case, I’m sorry and I hope it gets better. xoxo

Post # 4
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1133 posts
Bumble bee

A little bit of a role reversal huh…you want something low-key and non fancy..and your man wants the big blowout wedding and honey moon? I can relate to you…because while I think most girls dream of that…I would be very very happy having something small. Maybe even a Justice of the Peace wedding and party afterwards. Seriously. We would’ve been married by now if my SO was okay with that. But he’s not…he wants to have a huge wedding, huge reception, honeymoon the works. Can’t deny the man his joy 😉 Haha but I’m okay with that I know it will be amazing and I want that also. I want both so whatever he wanted I would’ve been down with.

I think we fail to realize that men also “dream” of the day they marry their future wife. They probably didn’t start planning it when they were 5 like we have, but I do think they have a VISION of what they want their wedding to be like. I totally sympathize with you though…I hope you guys get it worked out but at least you know that you have your man’s heart and you WILL be marrying him. Hopefully sooner than later 🙂

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