(Closed) So mad at these wedding guests….

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3363 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I would be pissed too.  But don’t let that ruin the memories of an otherwise great night.  But hell yea, hold a grudge! 

Post # 4
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

There are just some people who are like that.  It has nothing to do with you or your wedding, they would have done it to anybody.  So, you should just focus on the fact that you’re married to your Darling Husband and be sure not to invite them to any baby showers in the future!

Post # 5
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Well, this is your DH’s cousin so first and foremost you should let him be mad about it. Ultimately it was your DH’s decision to extend the invite weighing the relationship vs. how bad they said they wanted to attend and I would stick by his decision even considering how horrible they were to you.

I mean obviously this is just rude behavior. They didn’t seem to be respecting you at all and probably just wanted to vacation in Vegas and were using your wedding as an excuse. It’s dispicable and they should be ashamed of themselves, acting like that I’m not sure how many real friends they can actually keep in their lives and I’m sure it will eventually affect their relationship with each other.

For better or worse (no pun intended) once you decide to have wedding guests at all it opens up the possibility of something like this happening. So do your best to accept the good and the bad and appreciate the day for what it was, the day you marreid your love.

Post # 6
2288 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

You know, as I was reading this I kept rolling my eyes at them. Like, seriously? Looking at it from that perspective, it’s almost funny. Just be sure to politely decline future invitations from them and don’t feel obligated to invite them to any of your functions. They obviously have ZERO class and should be pitied.

Post # 7
442 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Like a school teacher over summer break… No class no class no class.

Post # 8
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

That is a shame the way they behaved at your event. Unfortunately theres nothing that can be done about it now. I would just black list them and never invite them to any event.

Post # 9
7689 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I am angry for you!  Wow-what nerve!!  I agree with the others-NO class!!!  I am glad they left, and you didn’t have to keep paying their tab!  I hope they aren’t in any of your photos 🙂  At least you can be the better person here, and let it go (at least eventually)  I wouldn’t invite them to anything again. Best wishes to you for a long and happy marriage! 🙂

Post # 10
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Ewwww some people just have no class. That’s just terrible. Icky icky people. They sound like DH’s cousins (who I really don’t like in the first place but we had to invite), they also double fisted through our whole reception. At last call I saw both of them go to the bar and come back with FOUR drinks each. I gave them a look like “you are such trash” and I know the wife saw. I don’t care one bit. They are gross classless people. There’s always one (couple) right…. At least you didn’t have to put up with them for the whole night. Good riddance. Now you know who you’re never inviting to dinner!

Post # 11
2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Well, at least you know 2 people who will never be on an invite list again 🙂

Don’t let it ruin your memories of the day. At every wedding, there are always rude guests and since your wedding was so intimate, their behavior was magnified. Forgive, don’t forget and move on.

Post # 12
684 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2009

 Holy Moly! I would be pissed too!!! Theres alot of wedding stuff that I feel some brides really just need to get over but for such an intamate wedding that is VERY rude!!! The Vegas wedding was not for THEM. It was for everyone to celebrate YOU. What they did after the wedding is totally up to them but at least have enough respect for your wedding! Oh the nerve of some people!

Post # 13
883 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wow, that would not be cool with me at all. I don’t blame you at all for being pissed. She obviously has no class. 

Post # 14
8 posts

How tacky!!

Post # 15
87 posts
Worker bee


I think you are wise to vent here to stangers. She obviously lacks couth.

Sounds like a scene from a comedy that involves that one ultra tacky guest. Surprised

Post # 16
5 posts
  • Wedding: March 2011

Go on and vent, girl! Those people are tacky central.

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