Post # 17
- Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch
This kind of thing would piss off Mr. S a lot, but I also don’t like to be touched when I’m angry. 😉 I’ve started trying to get over it because I know it always escalates our fights when I act “cold” when I’m angry, but… yeah. I’ll still tell him I love him, because it’s true no matter how mad I am, but I don’t want to kiss him!
In a perfect world, I think he could have come back and kissed you good bye, because when you reject someone so much in a fight it makes it seem worse than it is (like, you know you’ll kiss them later, so why hold out?) but I think some people are just crabbier than others. 😉 I’m a little bitchy, and maybe you’re Fiance is, too! 😉
Post # 18
This is so tough because on the one hand I always hate to leave my hubby or have him leave when we are mad at each other because I always worry that if something bad happened to either of us (like dying), I would never forgive myself if we were still angry at each other and we didn’t get to embrace one last time. On the other hand we don’t kiss or anything in the middle of arguments, really I don’t even like to be touched.
Anyway, I feel your pain, but maybe the time apart will be what you both needed to fix the argument.
Post # 19
That happened to me just the other day, thursday. If you read my blogs i have been seriously stressed right out, and my husband has been treating me really badly. So I wanted to switch the mood, to being uncranky to super dupperly happy. I called him to tell him every thing was going to be ok i send him a ecard with love and i just wanted to let him know that its going to ok. Well when he showed up in a sports car he walks in the house, really miserable. He was slamming things and just giving me glares, THERE IS NO REASON AT ALL TO BE TREATING ME THIS WAY. So i said to him hey what is going on with you, i thought we both calmed down, sorted things out and we are going to look past all this shit. He says i still dont like what you say about my Nephew, and my sister inlaw. I want to go watch him play football, and i dont want you to think anything of it. Cause its just going to be me and her watching him play. I said well just invite me as well, and he said no i dont want too. So i just lost it all the crap i have been going through has really been pissing me off YES I SNAPPED!!!! I ran down the stairs and just screamed at him and said YOU GET THE PAPERS AND I WILL SIGN. I WANT A DEVORSE YOU MOTHER F*****r.
You want to go out then i want to go out, F*** the three dishes in the sink!! Hes like good now i can leave as well. I take both keys cause he had a Lexus in the drive way and i wanted to go get my car so i spead out the drive way in his truck. And my cell starts to ring twice and i knew i locked him out so i speed back and take one key off the ring i open the window and Huck the key at him and i peeled out of the drive way. I can still see tire marks. That night i got drunk with my girl friend and i Felt good!! I even had three guys go by hallering at us girls, I felt like a teenager. I didnt answer my phone but about two hours later i answer his text, it said i couldnt hang out with anyone are you staying somewhere else tonight. I said no. He says I am sorry for the way i was treating you. If you come home can you please pick up some juice. So i came home and i was drunk and he was all concerned on where i was and what i was doing he started to get that husband worried convo. It felt good that i got him concerned, and that we do love eachother. He took me to a coupals massage yesterday and dinner at this fancy resturant. Shocked me, but i felt good thats the guy i married.
Everyone goes through these tiffs, but sometimes we just need a break from eachother. Things happen for reasons i always say. Just let god take it into his hands. If you are regligious. If not, go with your gutt.
Post # 20
When I’m mad I HATE being touched. My Fiance will want to “hug it out” (lol), but I’d prefer to calm down a bit before any touching happens. Maybe you’re Fiance feels the same way?