Personally I wouldn’t be with a guy that straight forward says he doesn’t know if he wants me if I can’t have children, because I’m a person, not a babymaking machine.
He has the right to want biological children, and has the right to leave if you can’t give him that, but if he does, how much can he love you, truelly, and not just your uterus?
I mean, there are plenty of options here, and if he see that: babies or no deal, I personally wouldn’t be with him, at all.
This said, I sorry to hear this from you, I hope you guys can work this out, maybe your appt goes well and you can have children?
In other hand, this part is really depressing, my aunt was checked out by doctars that said that she could have children, that wasn’t anything wrong with her, but she lost 4 babies before stop trying (it was too much emotions). So I know that people don’t want to hear this, its a sad tabu, but sometimes, women just can’t carry a pregnancy 🙁 Isn’t he prepared to deal with this, if you do (praying to god that this DOES NOT happen to you), loose another baby, is he leaving? Is his staying dependent of you having a baby?
I think you guys should talk really talk about this, and again, frase the baby making machine, how can he love you and still don’t consider other options.
I so so sorry to hear this 🙁 I know I would be sad, and I know you are too. Huge hug**** I hope everything works out well (at the appt and with you guys)