(Closed) So my SO like to do things backwards…Hey It's progress!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1278 posts
Bumble bee

So he is teasing you with empty ring boxes and a wedding ring, but won’t propose? 

Post # 4
Member
2577 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That is kinda strange, but still kinda cute. Hope the engagement ring is in the next box he throws your way!

Post # 5
Member
967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Lol I don’t want to shoot it down as weird, because you see excited… but I don’t get why he would act like he has a wedding band and not an e-ring? I think he has it.

Post # 6
Member
5296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

this actually makes me sad 🙁 I would be so mad and hurt if Darling Husband had done something like this. I hope he doesn’t play with your emotions like this all the time!

Post # 7
Member
2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Congrats!

A girl I knew got engaged with a wedding band and got her engagement ring later because it’s what they could afford at the time. I think it’s cute.

Post # 8
Member
967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@hisgoosiegirl:  me too! It’s like “did you think I wanted to be with you forever?? HAHA!!”

Post # 9
Member
2786 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m sorry, but that’s a really jerky move…..

Post # 10
Member
915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@sara_tiara:  Yeah, I’m really confused about this and how it’s a good thing.

Post # 12
Member
299 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

He sounds a lot like my ex Fiance who used to always tell me he only picked on me because I “could take it.”  

Yeah…

Post # 13
Member
1360 posts
Bumble bee

Hmm. If Fiance had done this to me I would have been seriously mad/hurt. Not excited.

Hands down, I wouldn’t want ANY kind of ring unless he was proposing (or it was a promise ring). I especially wouldn’t want an empty box thrown at me whilst SO asked if I was expecting anything.

Nonetheless, beautiful ring!

Post # 14
Member
666 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Congratulations!  Because the shape of the wedding band, I think the band must be a part of the engagment ring set that he already has it for you!  He’s such a teaser!  He must be so excited about this that he couldn’t keep a secret.  I guess proposal is coming soon!

Post # 16
Member
545 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

@hisgoosiegirl:  same, i’d take it as a let down. getting my hopes up for nothing (well not nothing but it would feel like he’s toying with me). Also i thought it was bad karma to wear your wedding ring before actually getting married 😛

The topic ‘So my SO like to do things backwards…Hey It's progress!’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors