Post # 1
that herself, 3 weeks out of jail(prison actually) driving without a license to go see a guy she’s been “talking to”said it’s the same s*** as me and FI’s situation becuase we sleep in the same bed and are not married. Nevermind the fact that we own a home together, are engaged and to married in October, and have full custody of HER daughter. really?! had to vent.
Post # 3
@Leemarie: It’s best not to involve yourself in crazy. It accomplishes nothing, other than headaches.
Post # 4
I’m sure that’s frustrating to hear, but don’t let it get to you. You know it’s not the same thing and it sounds like that little girl needs you. If she doesn’t understand now she will understand in time that there was/is a big difference between her mother and father’s lives but don’t preach it to her. Don’t tell her how bad her mom is/ how she lies. She will come to see this for herself as she grows up. Continue to be supportive and a good role model (it sounds like you’re doing a good job). Your stepdaughter will learn from that more than what her mom tells her.
Post # 5
Keep your nose clean on this one.
Post # 6
I agree with this advice.
Post # 7
Agreed. Don’t let her trying to rationalize her behavior become a feud.
Post # 8
squint your eyes shut, plug your ears and yell LALALALALALLALALLAA
Post # 10
I would never share my opinions or speak neatively about her mom to her. Just venting to adults:)