(Closed) So nervous…. scared I will be heartbroken this weekend

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Just focus on the trip as the wonderful gift it is.  Embrace everything he has planned, remain present in the moment, and have fun.  If he does propose, wonderful!  But if he doesn’t, that’s okay, too.  Hope you have a great time!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

Just wanted to send you hugs and good luck vibes -I really hope it happens for you. 

If it doesn’t, well you’ve still had a lovely trip and still got your man, plus we’ll be here to send you virtual hugs!!

But anyway, I have my fingers crossed for you, really hope it happens for you

x

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@waitinglittleone:  I agree with both the PPs. I truly hope that it does happen on your trip and that you have an amazing getaway. Don’t stress about it happening and enjoy your time together. If it doesn’t happen, at least you can look back and think what a wonderful time you had! Then you can come here and vent to all of us! Hugs to you! Enjoy your special birthday weekend!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@waitinglittleone:  I hope it happens for you too!! Try to enjoy the trip for what it is, though– an awesome birthday present! That way if he doesn’t propose, you’ll be able to enjoy it some. 

I’m worried I’m going to be in a similar position this May, when my SO and I are going on a special vacation we’re planning together. He just seems very ordinary about it all, though, which makes me think I should definitely NOT get my hopes up.

BUT I think you have good reason to get your hopes up, especially since you and your SO have talked about marriage so much. Has he been acting odd lately? 

Good luck!! I’m looking forward to an update to this next week!

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