(Closed) So no one showed to my bachelorette party :(

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Luxuryshoegal88: Holy crap, I’m so sorry! This is terrible and great job that your friend dropped the ball about planning it all and making sure she’d be in town!!!!!

Post # 4
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am so sorry to hear that.


((Hugs)) to you. Here’s hoping tomorrow is a better day.

Post # 5
1150 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Ugh! That totally sucks and i’m sorry it happened! If it was me, i would be taking myself to the hair salon for a blow out and then directly to a patio to enjoy a glass of cold white wine. 

I’m really sorry. I hope tomorrow is a blast! 

Post # 6
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m sorry hon. There’s no other way to say it, but that sucks. ((hugs)) I hope tomorrow is tons of fun.

Post # 8
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m sorry.  Your ‘friend’ really let you down on this one.  I’m sure if your mom put together a shower that it’ll be a very nice event and that she covered all her bases.

Post # 9
5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@Luxuryshoegal88: I vote you do something that you love tonight…go out for dessert and wine maybe? I am so sorry. THis sucks. some people get to wraped up in their own lives. It sucks but it happens. I never really realized how important these type of wedding things are until I got married. however, I was the first of my friends to get married. I had a sleepover with my sisters and mom for my bachlorette πŸ™‚ 

Post # 10
660 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am SO very sorry this happened to you. I am sure your shower will be lovely. It sounds like your friend’s flakey planning lead to this so don’t feel bad about yourself. Moms are great, so I’m sure you’ll be showered with love & goodies tomorrow. Let us know how your shower goes.

Post # 11
410 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Awww that is so not cool! I agree with the above that you really need to go do something for you tonight! I don’t blame you at all for feeling let down and hurt, and I think it’s terrible that someone would allow this all to turn out this way for you.

I hope you can find a way to enjoy something this evening and good thing you have what I’m sure will be  a wonderful shower to look forward to tomorrow. When you get back to CA, get a bunch of your girlfriends together and have a REDO bachelorette party.


Post # 11
2247 posts
Buzzing bee

I am so sorry, hun =[  That really sucks.  I really don’t have any friends, so I doubt I will have a Bachelorette, either.  Kinda makes me sad, but I would rather be with my Fiance then some fake girls who don’t care about me.

Post # 12
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh Im so sorry! Sometimes things just fall to bits and there is really no good reason for why. I’m glad you got your sis to keep you company and great things to look forward to. I’m sure your shower will go fine!

What culture is Fiance from? We don’t have Maid/Matron of Honor or BM’ either technically πŸ™‚

Post # 13
6351 posts
Bee Keeper

I vote we throw you a virtual b-party.

I’ll bring the penis straws.

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