Post # 1
Okay, so tonight was supposed to be my bachelorette party. My childhood friend asked if she could plan it because I don’t have a Maid/Matron of Honor or Bridesmaid or Best Man due to Fiance culutral background. I of course said she could. I bought a plane ticket for a date that would work for both of us as I grew up in Ohio and now live in CA. So I booked my flight back in June. I tried contacting her about 6 weeks ago and she said she would still do it. 4 weeks prior nothing. So I go ahead and send out an evite to my girlfriends. Still don’t hear anything from the supposed hostess. Finally. she emails me to let me know that she will be out of town and won’t be able to make the party or my shower. The 5 other girls I didn’t hear from. 2 said they would try to come, 1 said she would come and 2 were MIA. Well, tonight no one showed. I texted the girl who said she was coming this morning and she told me she was “all jammed up with stuff to do” and would try to make time for me? I feel totally snubbed :/. My mom is doing my bridal shower tomorrow and I’m just scared to have the same kind of turn out. I’m trying to keep my head up and stay positive but, I’m not going to lie I’m really trying hard to hold back the tears.
Post # 3
@Luxuryshoegal88: Holy crap, I’m so sorry! This is terrible and great job that your friend dropped the ball about planning it all and making sure she’d be in town!!!!!
Post # 4
I am so sorry to hear that.
((Hugs)) to you. Here’s hoping tomorrow is a better day.
Post # 5
Ugh! That totally sucks and i’m sorry it happened! If it was me, i would be taking myself to the hair salon for a blow out and then directly to a patio to enjoy a glass of cold white wine.
I’m really sorry. I hope tomorrow is a blast!
Post # 6
I’m sorry hon. There’s no other way to say it, but that sucks. ((hugs)) I hope tomorrow is tons of fun.
Post # 7
Thanks. I dragged my little sister out of bed to keep me company for now 🙂
Post # 8
I’m sorry. Your ‘friend’ really let you down on this one. I’m sure if your mom put together a shower that it’ll be a very nice event and that she covered all her bases.
Post # 9
@Luxuryshoegal88: I vote you do something that you love tonight…go out for dessert and wine maybe? I am so sorry. THis sucks. some people get to wraped up in their own lives. It sucks but it happens. I never really realized how important these type of wedding things are until I got married. however, I was the first of my friends to get married. I had a sleepover with my sisters and mom for my bachlorette 🙂
Post # 10
I am SO very sorry this happened to you. I am sure your shower will be lovely. It sounds like your friend’s flakey planning lead to this so don’t feel bad about yourself. Moms are great, so I’m sure you’ll be showered with love & goodies tomorrow. Let us know how your shower goes.
Post # 11
Awww that is so not cool! I agree with the above that you really need to go do something for you tonight! I don’t blame you at all for feeling let down and hurt, and I think it’s terrible that someone would allow this all to turn out this way for you.
I hope you can find a way to enjoy something this evening and good thing you have what I’m sure will be a wonderful shower to look forward to tomorrow. When you get back to CA, get a bunch of your girlfriends together and have a REDO bachelorette party.
Post # 11
I am so sorry, hun =[ That really sucks. I really don’t have any friends, so I doubt I will have a Bachelorette, either. Kinda makes me sad, but I would rather be with my Fiance then some fake girls who don’t care about me.
Post # 12
Oh Im so sorry! Sometimes things just fall to bits and there is really no good reason for why. I’m glad you got your sis to keep you company and great things to look forward to. I’m sure your shower will go fine!
What culture is Fiance from? We don’t have Maid/Matron of Honor or BM’ either technically 🙂
Post # 13
I vote we throw you a virtual b-party.
I’ll bring the penis straws.
Post # 15
Fi is Russian :). My sister is 13. I think I’m going to get some ice cream & wine 🙂 Ill let you know how tmrw goes hopefully much better. My mom has done a good job from what I can see so far (our house is already decorated/cleaned etc). So I know she did her part 🙂