(Closed) So pathetic, it’s sad.

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

All I can do is shake my head and say “ohhhh families”…. and advise you to stay as far from that argument as you can!

Post # 5
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Coming from a family that was essentially ripped apart over who got what when my grandparents died, this could become a serious issue.  I agree that I hope your Future In-Laws have everything spelled out to the letter!

I would say don’t take sides in this one at all.  In fact, don’t touch it with a 20 foot pole.  I’d be tempted to warn FIL’s so they can smack some sense into their children, but I’m not sure how any parent could handle their kids bargaining who gets what long before they’re dead.

That said, my parents DO have an ironclad will and both my sister and I have a very good idea of how things will be split.  They may have to step in here if they’re already aware this infighting is occurring.

Ugh, gross.

Post # 7
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wooow, they sound like charms. I agree with PPs, stay faaar away from that crazy mess. Future In-Laws should pass the property on before they pass. What’s sold and signed is done, no will to argue over and Future Sister-In-Law and Future Brother-In-Law can cry all the way home. They sound just wretched. 

Post # 8
148 posts
Blushing bee

Ugh. This makes me sad. It’s insane how materialistic & uncouth people can be. I guess I can’t say I’m glad that your future inlaws are aware of how pathetic their children are, but it’s definitely for the best, like you say, so they can make plans accordingly. I wouldn’t so much as leave bellybutton lint to such ungrateful-sounding offspring!

Like the others said, it’s best to stay out of it & focus on your wedding/relationship (and what a relief it is he didn’t turn out like his siblings), as I’m sure you’re far more gracious than them. Smile

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