- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
My wedding planning has been a challenge since day one. I go in spurts, one day all gung ho and the next, no motivation. I was really getting into it but then my toddler had a follow up appt with his ortho surgeon for his congenital scoliosis and it’s been nothing but his medical issues since.
We are now seeking help out of state and have an appt to fly to Los Angeles in a couple weeks. Every day I’m focusing on him and doctors and what needs to be taken care of. Then every once in a while it hits me…I have a wedding to plan!!!
I’m seriously stressing out big time. These past couple weeks have not been pleasant one thing after another. His appt in Chicago, emailing specialists on opposite ends of the US, meeing with his pediatrician. Then I learned that a friends son passed away, that same night I came home to find my dog could no longer walk and had to be put down. I finally think it’s over and go back to work Tuesday only to get a call from daycare that my toddler was having an asthma issue and wheezing. CALGON!!
Then…someone asks how’s the wedding planning going? Really? Wedding? I forgot all about it! I seriously do and it scares the crap out of me. I have SO much to do yet including finding a church and I have zero time or energy to focus on the wedding. The months keep flying by and I realize before I know it, May is going to be here and I wont be anywhere near ready.
Has anyone else encountered serious issues that have derailed their planning? I’ve considered postponing it just so I can focus on my son afterall he is most important but I know I’d lose a boat load of money.
I need some direction!