(Closed) So sad :(

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
7679 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999


My SIL had 2 miscarriages, in between 4 safely born healthy kids. I know it hurt – though I really can’t comprehend how much – so ((hugs)) again.

Post # 4
2367 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Oh no, I’m so sorry that this happened to you. 🙁

I know a miscarriage is devastating, but I really hope that it isn’t something that poses a more serious threat to *your* health.

I don’t think you should give up trying to have a child. <3

Post # 6
1828 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I am so sorry that you are going through this. It is very hard to deal with and unless you have been through it people just can’t understand.

I had several miscarriages. My first pregnancy miscarried at almost 6 months. I still think about that sometimes and that was 20 years ago…however, the extreme emotions do subside.

Just so you know (and right now this won’t help but as time goes by it will…as least it did for me), 2 out of 10 pregnancies in healthy women end in miscarriage. My OB/GYN told me that they believe it is usually caused by a defect that would have made survival of the baby unlikely. The other thing is it generally does not have any effect on future pregnancies (and from your doctor’s response there seems no concern).

Let your body heal…and take some time to grieve…and whatever you do do NOT blame yourself. Lean on your SO but remember he may grieve too…let him. You will get through this…both of you!

ETA: I mentioned having several miscarriages but forgot to add that I also have three very healthy children as well.

Post # 8
4575 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

****HUGS**** and lots of it! iam sorry to hear this happen to you.  It must be an awful feeling.  Don’t stop trying…this happens, unfotunately, to a lot of people.  I do wish you a fast recovery !

Post # 10
5107 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m so sorry for your loss =(

Yes, it’s normal for you to bleed a little bit longer than you were to bleed during a regular period. If it lasts too much longer, they need to intervene medically…I’m so sorry!

Post # 11
422 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@MrsN2Be:  so sorry :(. I’m going through the same thing right now, I’m on my 4th day of bleeding and it’s starting to lighten now, still get sharp pains here and there though. I was 4weeks, 1 day pg for reference xx

Post # 13
190 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

So sorry. It is such a desperate feeling, especially since you didn’t even know you were pregnant.  The best thing to remember is that there is nothing you did or did not do that caused this.  Miscarriages are so common, especially with first pregnancies. For reference, when I miscarried I bled for a total of 9 days. It would vary from light to heavy.  It’s normal to bleed for several days, as long as you are feeling physically okay and not faint or too weak. Wishing you all the best…

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