(Closed) So sad :(

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I am sorry that you feel this way.  While planning a wedding should be an exciting time, it is also a very stressful one (even if you do have great family support).  Since you have only been engaged for two weeks and your wedding date is still a while away, maybe you and your Fiance could decide to take a little time off from planning and just enjoy being engaged.  Maybe time will work out some of the feeligns and issues that you are currently facing.

Good luck and hang in there.

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Am I correct in that your wedding is almost 2.5 years away? If so, don’t worry about it now!!! Enjoy being engaged, and think about all this later. I know its hard, and so sorry for the loss of your dad, but maybe you have a close uncle, cousin, brother who could walk you down the aisle? Or, you could walk down with something to remember your dad by?

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2011

First of all congrats on the engagment! I think when we plan something really big and very important it makes us look at our selfs and we reflect on the different aspects of your life. It sounds like you are doing your very best to try to reach out to your sister. And all you can really do is keep trying! She may have someother reasons that you dont know of that has made her upset. For the wedding plans the key word is compromise! Other wise there will be arguing or someone is not going to get the wedding they want. Good luck with every thing!

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Awww (( Hugs)) I’m sorry your so sad. I am pretty much in the same boat as you. My mom won’t be attending my wedding. I don’t have a father and realized throughout this planning process that I don’t let many people close to me. I keep most everyone at arms length emotionally which tends to be a double edged sword. The best advice I can give you is to know that people who love you and want to share in your happiness will be there no matter what. Choose quality over quantity and cherish the ones that do support you whole heartly

Wishing you all the best!

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Oh ok, that’s better! Maybe you can delegate to his family to help you out, especially on the things that you don’t truly care about.  Maybe tell his family that for the next month, you jsut want to enjoy things and let them soak in, but after that you can’t wait to plan with them. Have a heart to heart, let them know your frustrations and sadness, and then let them help! Its awesome that they are such a great support system to you

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

So sorry about all your troubles! I agree with the other bees. Maybe you could focus on working out some issues with your sister. Sit down to dinner with her as well as Fiance and maybe you all could work something out. I am sure deep down she still loves you very much!

Just a thought, but how would it be if you got rid of FI’s dance with his mom all together, that way you wouldn’t feel so down. If not, perhaps your Future Father-In-Law would love the opportunity to dance with you. As for walking down the isle, I know my mom would do it if I asked her to so why not give it a shot? Never know.

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

This one I read and truly felt your emotions. I’m so sorry. This sounds so sad.

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