- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013 - UK
Well, I’m not super sized, but I gained a whole bunch of weight since getting with Fiance (maybe 40-50 pounds). The problem is that when you’re skinny, it’s easy to stay that way. You look in the mirror each day and think “DAMN, THAT IS ONE HOT PIECE OF ASS… oh yeah… if I were a guy I would tap that… I would totally tap that… no cookies or chocolate for you, hot stuff… but there is a gym class with your name on it at 6pm”. Whenever you’re tempted to be naughty, you just think about how hot you are and you thiink twice.
Now, when I’m fat, and I see something tasty, I think “I want to eat that. But it will make me fatter… but I want it… you know what- **** it. I’m fat already, so I’ll just get fatter”. Likewise, with exercise classes, I think “I really don’t want to exercise, because I hate it and I also sweat like a fat person. **** it, already fat, one gym session won’t make a difference… I’ll just watch TV and drink beer instead”.
So yep. Just like you. You are not alone! Trying to lose weight totally sucks, right? Sympathising here! Why not try a free website like FitDay, where you have to enter all the food you eat? Just seeing the total calories can help you understand where the weight is coming from. Plus you don’t have to commit lots… just keep your total calorie intake lower than your output by a little bit (maybe 200 calories a day or so), so you don’t feel like you’re dieting to start with. Then when you start losing weight and start looking hotter then you will hve more of an incentive to try harder…