(Closed) So sh** hit the fan with my mom this weekend..

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should I invite her to the wedding?
    Yes : (4 votes)
    19 %
    No : (3 votes)
    14 %
    Wait it out and see what happens : (14 votes)
    67 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    46336 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I am truly sorry for all you brides dealing with moms with behavior/mental health problems.

    As your poll suggests, you have time. Let it go and see what happens. It’s pretty hard not to invite yout Mom to your wedding.

    Post # 4
    Member
    5984 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1999

    Such drama.  Why do people have to behave like this?  I see that you aren’t marrying until 2012, so you have time.  Hopefully, your relationship can be resolved by then.

    Post # 6
    Member
    6893 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    As others have said, obviously waiting it out is the CURRENT answer. However, my initial gut reaction was “No.” I wouldn’t. FI’s mom probably won’t be coming to ours for some very similar reasons (plus a few others, but mental instability and run-ins with some not good things are the main issues). It’s okay to not want to deal with that on your wedding day. It doesn’t make you a bad person. But for now…wait it out. Revisit this question when invites are going out, and good luck with all that you’re going through with this. 🙂

    Post # 7
    Member
    1363 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this. Just a little different perspective though: She was excited to tell her father that you are getting married. She probably didn’t know you wanted to tell him first?

    ETA I see you told her not to tell. I guess she will have to get over herself if she wants to see you married.

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