(Closed) So she decided to drop out

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1135 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

HUGE ((((HUGS))))  I’m so sorry, I don’t even know what to say!  I can’t believe she is so immature and uncaring that she would do this.  But I will say this…if this is the kind of friend she was, you’re probably better off without her.  She would have been a toxic presence on your wedding day, and you don’t need that.  The question now is…what are you going to do next?

Post # 4
467 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

first, congrats on the wedding coming up so soon!  i am so excited for you!

after re-reading your last post about her proposed “compromise” to leave early and go “hang-out” with an ex-, i can’t help but think that this may be a giant relief – and that may be why youre not as upset as you would anticipate.  i mean, now you dont have to worry about your Maid/Matron of Honor being moody or counting down the minutes until she leaves YOUR WEDDING – and now you dont have someone standing beside you who isn’t 100% into YOUR DAY.

frankly, although this was a selfish thing for her to do (especially with the wedding coming up in 2 short weeks), it may be the best possible situation – no one, especially a Maid/Matron of Honor, should be “compromising” or leaving such an important day

*hugs* and good luck on the 16th!

Post # 5
3997 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Oh man, sorry to hear that.  I think you probably haven’t reacted yet because you’re in shock.  That might be a good thing.  Regardless, enjoy the next few weeks.

Post # 7
4479 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! I had a lot of drama in the week before the wedding, and you SO don’t need that. You’ll be much happier that she isn’t around to poison your day. Don’t feel bad that you haven’t reacted about it yet; hopefully you won’t feel any need to (at least until after the wedding ;).

Post # 8
66 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

hey sounds like your friend is struggling to get herself together. i mean why is she hanging out with this guy who has repeatedly hurt her anyway? seems like she’s a bit lost and her personal issues have gotten in the way of her being your friend. i don’t blame you that you’re coming up empty on emotions. whatever is going on with her doesn’t really have anything to do with you or your wedding – so not sure there’s much for you to feel about it.  anyway that’s great that your sister has been such a great “MOH” in actions all along! i’m sure it will be a fantastic day 🙂

Post # 9
1479 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Oh honey, I am so sorry!  This is probably the last thing you need right now but it sounds like you were able to find a good solution.  I’m happy for you that your sister was able to step in and has been a good “unofficial MOH” for you! 🙂

I’m excited for you!  You’re in the homestretch now! 🙂


Post # 10
3041 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’m so glad you have your sis to stand by you the whole day :). Your wedding is sooo close!!

Post # 11
219 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

So sorry to hear about the crappy friend, but I would have been relieved too!

Post # 12
435 posts
Helper bee

So sorry about this, but it probably does relieve a lot of stress.  Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. Have a great day.

Post # 13
87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Good for you for sticking up for yourself – I am a total crier too, but sometimes I think that as much as a situation might upset/disappoint me, I often feel better once I’ve dealt with something head on and feel like I escaped a bigger problem. You don’t need the drama and you will have an amazing day with the true people supporting you!! Enjoy your day!!!!

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