(Closed) SO STRESSED!!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Soon2bMrs.S:  Yes! I’ve been saything this the past few days to Fiance.  Randomly I’ll be like “lets fly to vegas and elope”  or “lets fly to jamaica and elope” etc..

We are having trouble finding a church and i’m ready to pull my hair out! I get short with Fiance sometimes because I’m so frustrated that no one will let us get married in their church, or if we do find someone one fees are way out of our budget and he just doesnt’ seem to get that this is a very important detail!

 

Post # 4
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2254 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Soon2bMrs.S:  I know what you mean! My stress comes from the in-laws and all the litle details that everyone claimed they wanted to help you with when you got engaged. However, the moment the time comes to get things done, it’s like a million excuses. I can’t wait until Fiance moves here next month so he can start sharing some of the planning responsibility. =/

Post # 5
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870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I haven’t started doing serious wedding planning yet but I hope I don’t get too stressed!  I’m sorry you feel so stressed.  Try taking a week or a few days “off” during which you don’t do anything wedding related at all.  Go on a nice date with your Fiance and talk about everything besides wedding stuff. Remember it’s about you two and your relationship.  Bring it back to the core of things. Good luck!

Post # 6
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2416 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hey date twin!

I get stressed because now that most of the big stuff is done, only the small, tedious things are left and there are millions of them! I hope you have a really relaxing honeymoon at the end of all the planning!

Post # 7
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986 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am so over stressed I can’t even tell you.  You would think people would happy and supportive.  I almost people like they are jealous and petty.

Post # 9
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7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I was feeling stressed a month ago but I took a little break from all wedding stuff… didn’t do any DIY, concentrated my time to our basement renovations and it has helped alot. I’m back full swing again for a while, I’m sure as I get closer I will feel again and when that happens, I will take a little break to re-focus, not sure if this helps, but for me it did and it still does. Hang in there!

Post # 10
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1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh I hear ya. There’s so many people with so many opinions that several times Fiance and I have looked at each other and said, “Screw it! Throw it all out the window and let’s elope!”. But deep down we know that’s not what we want to do, so we get back down to planning…

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