(Closed) so stressed… might postpone the wedding

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
91 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

If you have a backyard bbq type reception, then could you afford to invite all of your FH’s family? Have you looked into any VFW halls or condo clubhouses for rental? What about postponing just a few months?

Post # 4
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Im sorry things are not going so well. When I got engaged my father told me that no matter what we decide to do in planning our wedding, someone was going to have a problem with it. So we should just do what WE want to do. You should do the same. This should be a happy time and if you ant afford a large event or you just dont want one, do what you want and the ones who truely love you will be there. Good luck, and worse case scenario push your date back. 🙂

Post # 5
687 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Can you just be honest with his family and explain that while you’d like to host everyone that they would like to be there you guys just really can’t afford it? Really, it’s your wedding and if it’s that important to them that EVERYONE come, maybe they will be willing to chip in?


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