(Closed) SO suggested engagement watch

posted 5 years ago in Engagement
Post # 76
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11359 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

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talula23:  it’s so great that you were able to have a real discussion about finaces and how it’s not helpful to be tit for tat. That is a major issue in marriage, so good on you both! 

Post # 77
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Thank you for updating us! 

It’s a great sign that he can (eventually) engage and respond positively to concerns you raise. It must be a big weight if your mind. 

Post # 78
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5145 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2010

I am glad you talked. That is just a start, keep the conversation going. In time you will also need to talk about household budgets, view and expectations on saving versus miscellaneous spending, whether to have separate accounts in addition to joint accounts, or “fun money” budgets, what you want to save for, how much to put aside for retirement, whether to start tuition funds for your own kids (if you have them) so they don’t have or have as many loans, and so on. Like I said before, financial circumstances can always change if you are spending your lives together so you will need to revisit often!

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