(Closed) So surprised, I woke myself up!

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Were you excited when you got engaged even if you'd recently been feeling apathetic?
    I was never apathetic toward engagement. : (9 votes)
    31 %
    Yes, getting engaged made me forget all about feeling apathetic! : (7 votes)
    24 %
    Being tired of waiting definitely negatively affected my proposal/ engagement to some degree. : (2 votes)
    7 %
    I'm not engaged yet, but I can relate to "feeling checked out" from waiting! : (11 votes)
    38 %
  • Post # 3
    1239 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    @MadameX:  Are you sure you and I aren’t twins? Our third anniversary is June 8th, and we have a road trip in late June planned as well. The exception is that my SO is crazy excited about this trip, keeps talking about how impatient he is, how excited he is. I’m apathetic about the trip because I’m only going because he wants to. 

    I’m trying not to read into his excitement, because, like you, I don’t want to get excited about something happening that I’m 99% sure isn’t going to happen. I’m pretty down on the whole engagement thing right now as well, he has the ring, but he feels that he needs to do/have certain things done before he proposes. 

    I am trying to let you know that I feel your frustration and am sorry that you’re dealing with it. Hopefully it gets better soon.


    Post # 5
    1239 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    @MadameX:  Awww that’s sweet, but I wouldn’t. The road trip is to a convention. LOL He’s said numerous times that he wants to wait until he finishes this course work, and that won’t happen until summer of 2014. I have a looooong wait.

    That’s ok though, cause everytime he talks about how impatient he is for the trip, I just stare at him, and he gets really quiet. LOL 

    Thanks for wishing for me though. 🙂

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