(Closed) So the SO has decided when he will be proposing…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Miss Circe:  Awww, I know 2013 seems so far away but if he’s worth the wait then the time should pass. Try not to pre-occupy your mind totally with wedding stuff. How old are you, and how long have you been together?

My SO and I just had our 4 yr on the weekend. I am trying really hard not to bother him with wedding talk but its so hard, and I find that when I go out with our friends that are girls that it’s all we talk about and is driving him nuts. He gave me a timeline 2 yrs ago that he broke (I wanna be married at 30-31), he’s going to be 31 in May and were not even engaged :/ He keeps saying that he wants it to be a surprise and will not give me a timeline; even though I nicely explained that all of the other “bees” have timelines from their SO…lol

 

Post # 4
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1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Aww it seems so far away now, but I am sure the time will fly!!

Post # 5
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333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

i don’t want to get your hopes up or anything, but maybe this is a ploy to throw you off? i don’t know how much he is into surprises, but considering how he deals with such situations, does it strike you as a little odd that he would tell you exactly when he wants to do it? just a thought!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@peonia:  hmm you could be on to something…a part of me thinks its odd to make you wait so long and than to tell you the exact time he plans to propose when usually men want the proposal to be a surprise!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Miss Circe:  Do you think he might be trying to throw you off? I mean my SO would never tell me when he is proposing. I know all about him getting my ring made and this and that but he is super tight lipped about the proposal (I even try to dig out details from him just to see if he’ll let something slip but he won’t). Do you think that he is telling you he wants to propose in Vegas so he has that much time to surprise you since you won’t be expecting it?

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@peonia:  I just read your post! My thoughts exactly!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

@Miss Circe:  Based on his history of sneakiness I bet it’s a red herring! I wouldn’t get your hopes up too much, but I know if my SO said something like that it would be to throw me off. 🙂

Post # 12
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Blushing bee

I TOTALLY think he is just throwing you off! In the end, I’m sure you’ll be surprised. Let us know! Can’t wait to hear!

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