(Closed) So tired of expecting something! Birthday-repeat of Christmas and anniversary?!?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@DrMrsCol:  I’m sorry and happy belated birthday! Why don’t you go out with friends or family for a drink or two? ( or 3 or 4 lol )

  Go enjoy your self! ::::HUGS!!!!::::

Post # 4
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205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Open it! ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 5
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370 posts
Helper bee

Hmmm maybe he’s throwing you off and theres a tiny little box in that big giant box ๐Ÿ™‚ Thats what my SO did at Xmas well ended up being a gorgeous necklace but fooled me by putting it in this big box I was pretty surprised when I opened it lol

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I was getting excited/disappointed about every holiday for a bit, and then Fiance told me after he proposed that he would have never done it on a day that was something else major because he wanted our engagement to have it’s own special day.  Not saying your SO is thinking this way, as he’s clearly had plenty of time to pick a day, but food for thought.  Also, while the china set may not be a ring, it is a symbol of commitment since he’s helping build a set of china that you will use as a family going forward.  Either way, happy birthday!

Post # 7
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Helper bee

@inspiredcreations: My SO also told me he would never propose on a special holiday, bday ect because he would want me to be surprised and proposing on holidays seems very cliche to him. Maybe the original posters SO feels the same way 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Awwww, so sorry! December will be a killer for me…My birthday is the 15th and then there’s Christmas…I’ll be on pins and needles the whole month, and sooo let down if there’s no little box under the tree!! I feel ya ๐Ÿ™

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Sounds like your SO is deserving of socks and underwear for Christmas… ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 13
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299 posts
Helper bee

@DrMrsCol:  I fear this disappointment on V-day. Not because it’s the romantic holiday but because it’s our anniversary and my sister put it in my head that she thinks it’s that date he’s waiting on. Why oh why did she have to say that?

Post # 15
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993 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My Fiance proposed about week and a half after I had given up all hope.  I was telling myself it will come when it comes and I will go insane if I keep obsessing.  I didn’t bring it up, I forced myself not to think about it, I told myself it might not happen for several years.  And then he asked… 

Try to keep distracted and focus on your relationship?  At least he’s building a china set with you and that works towards the future.

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