(Closed) So tomorrow is Valentine’s Day

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I totally understand!  I know my SO won’t propose on VDay, but I can’t help but hope that he will do it by the end of February. According to his timeline it should happen soon though.

It’s a great thing that you know it is coming soon!!  Congrats and try to focus on how exciting it will be.  That helps me stay calm even though I hate this boat too..:)

Post # 6
1091 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Ugh I’m in the same boat! SO says not to expect it, and I’m trying not to get my hopes up, but who wouldn’t get their hopes up on the one night romanticism is encouraged! lol Hang in there and enjoy the comedian at least! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
651 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yes, mine has made it clear he will not do it when it is expected, so no holidays or birthdays, etc. Our anniversary is the day after valentine’s but I am trying not to expect anything. He did mention the long weekend coming up (we are in Ontario) next weekend so hopefully he is thinking that will be a good time? haha I don’t know. Just fantasizing now. 

Post # 8
2025 posts
Buzzing bee

ugh, i know this boat. nowadays i’m luckily not so concerned about it. but i sometimes wish we could just get it over with. all this build up for… what exactly? 


it’s odd to think a year ago tomorrow i was CONVINCED SO was going to propose. that seems like just yesterday! 2011 was gone in a blink.


Post # 9
4352 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Megan316:  Mine took me out on almost daily dates and “field trips” (which are sometimes dinner and sometimes trips to the grocery store) the two weeks before we got engaged. So when we went on a “field trip” the night we got engaged I didn’t realize anything was going on until we had been in the car for an hour. And I didn’t think it was a proposal until he pulled out the ring. I had been picturing him using the proposal as an excuse to fly out and visit me (I was doing an internship several states away for the summer) so I was completely caught off guard. Which is impressive because I knew he had the ring.

ETA: So basically, I think hes trying to throw you off, and while I don’t want you to get your hopes up, I don’t think those dates are completely off the table.

Post # 10
1131 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Sounds like plans are happening! But also, try not to expect it tomorrow might. I know with my SO, if he said it wasn’t happening, it wouldn’t be happening. I just don’t want you to her your hopes up for tomorrow ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
1133 posts
Bumble bee

he hasnt told me not to expect anything but I feel as though I DEFINITELY shouldnt expect anything tomorrow…yet you cannnnnt help but to have that little lingering hope! you just cant. it will never go away until he gives us the ring lol. I feel you, really do. We had an amazing tonight out with friends tonight and I feel so close to him, I couldn’t imagine a better surprise than him asking me to marry him tomorrow. But….i have a very grave feeling that tomorrow wont be the day. keep your head uP ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 12
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

My Fiance made it seem like he was going to propose on Valentines day, dropping hints, making sure my nails were done (yes ladies, he does my nails) and then nothing, no proposal. Let me tell you I was not impressed. Two weeks later he totally cought me off guard and proposed when I least expected it. He said he wanted it to be special so that we could have our own day, one that we didn’t have to share with any other couples. His reasons were sweet but let me tell you I could have killed him on the morning of the 15th.

Post # 13
972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

AHH! I hope he proposes tomorrow! ๐Ÿ™‚ good luck to  you

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